I have been busy wearing my grandma hat. I spent the first part of Spring break week, with 2 delightful little ones...they took grandma to the frog exhibit at the science museum, to the zoo to see the giraffes, and to Fenway to catch a Red Sox game...yes the correct team won! We kept very busy, and the remaining 2 grands took the train to spend the last part of the week with us. We topped it off with a birthday celebration..the youngest grand is now 4...how does that happen so fast.
So, it was Wednesday by the time Master declared Maintenance Day. We had missed one the week i was away...so it was double maintenance day. I did try to argue the point ( i do not give up easily), but knew that Master was not changing the 'missed maintenance will be made up' rule. After my naked kneeling, i was over Master's lap for a hand warm-up. It had been over 2 weeks since any spanking...and in my world that is a long time. Sometimes that means that i have a hard time settling in...or as Master says, accepting the spanking. This time i quickly just settled in even when He started in with the maintenance paddle. Master stopped after each set of 25 for some rubbing...and when He stopped at 50 He commented how pleased He was that i was so relaxed and accepting, no squirming, no loud protestations... I wish i knew why that sometimes happens, and not at others, but i have no clue...
After the first maintenance spanking, Master offered me a break...on my knees sucking His cock. I had missed His taste, His scent, the feel of His cock filling my mouth....Too soon, Master announced time for Maintenance spanking number two. Another 100 with the maintenance paddle. Master finished and is rubbing and i know He is waiting....I managed to get into a bit of trouble when i was away...I know hardly seems possible.
One morning I was making breakfast for the 2 grands, they watch one of their shows while i am getting everything ready. Master suddenly tells me, to find something to put in my mouth and pretend i am sucking His cock. I look in the fridge quickly for a cuke or zucchini figuring i can quickly slip into the bathroom and the girls would not notice. I found nothing, so i reply that i would get to it later in the day, or before bed. I could feel His heat coming through the phone.....Now...when I ask , you do. I glanced at the fruit bowl and found a banana, took a pic for Master to see, and mission accomplished, no one the wiser. Except, Master's next words were...remind me that you have earned a caning when you return. Double Ugh.....
So, after the second maintenance, i tell Master, there is something i need to remind you...He asks what, He is going to make me say the words. I ask for a caning, since i hesitated to complete a task. He tells me good girl for remembering to ask, and for asking...and to get into position. He gets His birthday cane, and tells me 6 of the best. My bottom was very well warmed, and Master is not one to just tap lightly, but they were not the hardest.....hard enough so that i remember. Master asks me what happens if He has to address the same issue a second time...the punishment doubles.
Spankings are all caught up, and we move on to pleasuring each other in other ways..which leads to some needed nap time....
Most of you know that i am a long time Red Sox fan. I listened to them on the radio..yes a plain old regular, with a dial radio, in high school. Master is a 'damn Yankee' fan, and neither one of us is likely to change our allegiance. So we usually wager on the games. The teams are playing this weekend...the wonderful Sox won last night's game.....2 more games to go...so please send all the good carma you can that the right team keeps winning and sweeps the series:).
It is good to be back, I am playing catch up on many blogs....
hugs abby
Saturday, April 30, 2016
Saturday, April 16, 2016
Happy Birthday Master...
Master does not technically add another candle on the cake for a few more days...but we had our 'just us' celebration early...
I tell Him i dressed in His favorite color...for His special day. Orange sweater and orange socks...I do not own a pair of orange pants, and can't imagine buying a pair...so He had to settle for jeans. After He had looked me over and nodded, I took off the first layer and said....special orange undies...for You. ( Do you have any idea how hard it is to find an orange bra...and sexy orange panties? I searched malls and on-line...Oh..there is salmon and peach and cantaloup ((I thought that was a fruit))....but I wanted bright orange. I did have to settle for a more subtle orange...but His eyes lit up...so ..mission accomplished!
I then presented Him with His gift. He has been hinting that He needs a new cane....the old one is falling apart and splintering. Now, I did not jump at the 'hints'....after all, not having a usable cane in His toy bag, is not all bad, from my point of view. But since , I do aim to please, I started cane shopping...so many choices. Now it was not hard to eliminate many of those choices, I was looking for a cane that was to my liking...in more ways than one. I finally settled on one that is called, "Master's Cane", and was a best seller. Once i got it, i thought...YIKES...but i did keep it.
It is hard to wrap a cane and not have it obvious that it is a cane..so I did not try. I did use some frog paper, which made Him laugh, and He loved it..immediately swishing it around....gulp. As is our tradition, I was to receive His age, with each toy He decided to use. I will just say He has been around for at least 6 decades. Master said that since He was so pleased with the celebration so far, He would choose some wood and some leather.
Over His lap for a hand warm-up. He starts with a small wooden paddle, that has holes. It hurts, but the 60+ spanks are over fairly quickly.
Next, Master has chosen a large black, oval, leather paddle. The leather is stiff and hard. The noise is very loud, and the spanks are very sharp. When He finishes I am trying to catch my breath when I hear Him ask if I would like a break? I quickly am up and on knees, letting my mouth work on pleasing Him and continuing the birthday celebration.
He then tells me to bend over, bottom out...He has chosen the "My Paddleman" paddle. It was a gift from me one Christmas. ( I could never be accused of giving a gift that was based on what I would like...) It is large...covers both cheeks...and on the heavy side. He loves it, which is good....My bottom is starting to heat up, and turning a nice shade of red. Next up is a leather strap...like a belt, but without a buckle. Since my bottom has been very well warmed up, this round has me almost swooning. With a grin, Master asks if I would like another break...Of course, i would....and am kneeling again.
Master says He wants to end with His gift, so the large leather strop is next. I love this strop, even tho it looks intimidating. My bottom is still generating heat, so I am very ready. Master has me get into position, and this set is over much too quickly. I am slow getting up....Master gives me a big hug, smiling He says ...time for my birthday gift to get broken in. He tells me to stand, hands behind my head, and not to break position. He gives me two sets of 6, and I am struggling with the position. Master tells me to go over and hang on to the fire place mantle. This is an easier position for me. He continues until there is one set left. He asks if I would like the last set on my thighs....I know there is only 1 right answer...any place you would like Sir...I am all Yours. The last set is on my thighs, not as hard, but they do not need to be. Master then says He would like me to finish showing Him how pleased I am with the birthday celebration.... later, I check out my bottom, I sure do hope that stripes are in style...
Happy Birthday Master...growing older with You is the best adventure a girl could ask for....
hugs abby
I tell Him i dressed in His favorite color...for His special day. Orange sweater and orange socks...I do not own a pair of orange pants, and can't imagine buying a pair...so He had to settle for jeans. After He had looked me over and nodded, I took off the first layer and said....special orange undies...for You. ( Do you have any idea how hard it is to find an orange bra...and sexy orange panties? I searched malls and on-line...Oh..there is salmon and peach and cantaloup ((I thought that was a fruit))....but I wanted bright orange. I did have to settle for a more subtle orange...but His eyes lit up...so ..mission accomplished!
I then presented Him with His gift. He has been hinting that He needs a new cane....the old one is falling apart and splintering. Now, I did not jump at the 'hints'....after all, not having a usable cane in His toy bag, is not all bad, from my point of view. But since , I do aim to please, I started cane shopping...so many choices. Now it was not hard to eliminate many of those choices, I was looking for a cane that was to my liking...in more ways than one. I finally settled on one that is called, "Master's Cane", and was a best seller. Once i got it, i thought...YIKES...but i did keep it.
It is hard to wrap a cane and not have it obvious that it is a cane..so I did not try. I did use some frog paper, which made Him laugh, and He loved it..immediately swishing it around....gulp. As is our tradition, I was to receive His age, with each toy He decided to use. I will just say He has been around for at least 6 decades. Master said that since He was so pleased with the celebration so far, He would choose some wood and some leather.
Over His lap for a hand warm-up. He starts with a small wooden paddle, that has holes. It hurts, but the 60+ spanks are over fairly quickly.
Next, Master has chosen a large black, oval, leather paddle. The leather is stiff and hard. The noise is very loud, and the spanks are very sharp. When He finishes I am trying to catch my breath when I hear Him ask if I would like a break? I quickly am up and on knees, letting my mouth work on pleasing Him and continuing the birthday celebration.
He then tells me to bend over, bottom out...He has chosen the "My Paddleman" paddle. It was a gift from me one Christmas. ( I could never be accused of giving a gift that was based on what I would like...) It is large...covers both cheeks...and on the heavy side. He loves it, which is good....My bottom is starting to heat up, and turning a nice shade of red. Next up is a leather strap...like a belt, but without a buckle. Since my bottom has been very well warmed up, this round has me almost swooning. With a grin, Master asks if I would like another break...Of course, i would....and am kneeling again.
Master says He wants to end with His gift, so the large leather strop is next. I love this strop, even tho it looks intimidating. My bottom is still generating heat, so I am very ready. Master has me get into position, and this set is over much too quickly. I am slow getting up....Master gives me a big hug, smiling He says ...time for my birthday gift to get broken in. He tells me to stand, hands behind my head, and not to break position. He gives me two sets of 6, and I am struggling with the position. Master tells me to go over and hang on to the fire place mantle. This is an easier position for me. He continues until there is one set left. He asks if I would like the last set on my thighs....I know there is only 1 right answer...any place you would like Sir...I am all Yours. The last set is on my thighs, not as hard, but they do not need to be. Master then says He would like me to finish showing Him how pleased I am with the birthday celebration.... later, I check out my bottom, I sure do hope that stripes are in style...
Happy Birthday Master...growing older with You is the best adventure a girl could ask for....
hugs abby
Saturday, April 9, 2016
I asked....and i received....
I am kneeling, naked, and Master is claiming me. His touch, his voice, are all i am aware of....until He starts to pinch my nipples. He tells me to overtake the pain, to use it, not let it overtake me....sometimes easier said than done. I am finally invited over His lap, for a wonderful hand warm-up. Too soon, i feel wood....I ask what He is using. One of the small wood paddles, but the one that has holes....ouchy for sure.
Finally, Master tells to me get up and present Him my bottom...I am up and leaning over....Master asks if I am warmed up enough for the large leather strop, i believe i am. I am guessing maybe 100, and after the first set, I settle in, enjoying the feel, the sensations, until He moves a set from my bottom to my back. Back to my bottom, and all is well once again. Then i feel the swish of the horse hair. It is a flogger, but the strands are all very light, it is one of the few toys that i enjoy on my breast. He is alternating flogging with it and just swishing it over my back, bottom and legs. I am thinking this can't get any better, when Master stops, and asks if I would prefer the larger leather flogger...silly question.
Master says He is not going to count, He is just going to flog me until His arm is tired. I settle in knowing I am in for a wonderful long session with that flogger. Master again alternates flogging and just swishing and dragging the strands, up and down my back, my bottom my legs....all is wonderful in my world:). After a lengthy session Master stops and says, you asked me for something a few weeks ago, it is time I delivered.
I am thinking back, and honestly have no clue, Master laughs and says it has to to with a picture of you. Now I usually try to hide whenever anyone takes out a camera, Master is grinning and suddenly the light dawns. It was about a month ago, Master had cum all over my face...it was a first, and a rather delightful one. Later, when we were talking about it , i said i wished i had thought to ask for a picture, so i could see what i looked like. So, i did ask, if we did this again, could i have a picture of myself? Master thanked me for asking and said it sounded like a good idea.
Ahhh, as the light dawns, Master laughs and says, you need to get things started, as He is pointing at the spot between His legs. I eagerly get to pleasuring Master, thinking about what was to cum next. When He is ready, Master tells me to lie on my back, gets over me, and soon my face is covered with His cum. He gets up and tells me to be still, and i feel a flash...He tells me to open my eyes and smile....I should be enjoying my photo shoot. After a few more, Master is done with the picture taking.
He gets over me, and starts to use His cock to get some of the cum off my face and then tells me to clean it off...we continue in this manner until Master finishes up with His fingers, having me suck those. He then finishes wiping off my face with a dry cloth. He tells me He wants me to keep the sticky smell of Him on my face....He has not decided yet, if it will be til bed time...or when morning comes. I laugh and shake my head...in wonder of this man who always goes beyond my expectations....
Later, i thank Master for our fun Friday time, for remembering my question...His reply....i so rarely ask for anything, how could He forget? And....my asking makes it easier for Him, helps Him to know what i am ready for, where my head is at, what would please me, what would help me serve Him better...so He asks me to please ask...often. So...to all of you out there who also have a hard time with asking....I am thinking your Masters/Mistresses might just feel the same way.....
hugs abby
Finally, Master tells to me get up and present Him my bottom...I am up and leaning over....Master asks if I am warmed up enough for the large leather strop, i believe i am. I am guessing maybe 100, and after the first set, I settle in, enjoying the feel, the sensations, until He moves a set from my bottom to my back. Back to my bottom, and all is well once again. Then i feel the swish of the horse hair. It is a flogger, but the strands are all very light, it is one of the few toys that i enjoy on my breast. He is alternating flogging with it and just swishing it over my back, bottom and legs. I am thinking this can't get any better, when Master stops, and asks if I would prefer the larger leather flogger...silly question.
Master says He is not going to count, He is just going to flog me until His arm is tired. I settle in knowing I am in for a wonderful long session with that flogger. Master again alternates flogging and just swishing and dragging the strands, up and down my back, my bottom my legs....all is wonderful in my world:). After a lengthy session Master stops and says, you asked me for something a few weeks ago, it is time I delivered.
I am thinking back, and honestly have no clue, Master laughs and says it has to to with a picture of you. Now I usually try to hide whenever anyone takes out a camera, Master is grinning and suddenly the light dawns. It was about a month ago, Master had cum all over my face...it was a first, and a rather delightful one. Later, when we were talking about it , i said i wished i had thought to ask for a picture, so i could see what i looked like. So, i did ask, if we did this again, could i have a picture of myself? Master thanked me for asking and said it sounded like a good idea.
Ahhh, as the light dawns, Master laughs and says, you need to get things started, as He is pointing at the spot between His legs. I eagerly get to pleasuring Master, thinking about what was to cum next. When He is ready, Master tells me to lie on my back, gets over me, and soon my face is covered with His cum. He gets up and tells me to be still, and i feel a flash...He tells me to open my eyes and smile....I should be enjoying my photo shoot. After a few more, Master is done with the picture taking.
He gets over me, and starts to use His cock to get some of the cum off my face and then tells me to clean it off...we continue in this manner until Master finishes up with His fingers, having me suck those. He then finishes wiping off my face with a dry cloth. He tells me He wants me to keep the sticky smell of Him on my face....He has not decided yet, if it will be til bed time...or when morning comes. I laugh and shake my head...in wonder of this man who always goes beyond my expectations....
Later, i thank Master for our fun Friday time, for remembering my question...His reply....i so rarely ask for anything, how could He forget? And....my asking makes it easier for Him, helps Him to know what i am ready for, where my head is at, what would please me, what would help me serve Him better...so He asks me to please ask...often. So...to all of you out there who also have a hard time with asking....I am thinking your Masters/Mistresses might just feel the same way.....
hugs abby
Tuesday, April 5, 2016
Harder Play Monday is back....
I often wonder how is it that Master seems to live in my head...see my thoughts...even when we are not in the same place. I know it is impossible...but....An example: I often go back and re-read old entries, looking back at the same month last year or a few years ago. Last week I was reading entries from a couple years ago, Master had decided we would start "harder play Mondays"...on the first Monday of each month. I was a little hesitant, but it was a statement not a question. After a couple months real life interfered, and we never got back to it...honestly i was some place between relieved and disappointed. A few days ago, Master and I are chatting and He says....we need to start harder play on the first Monday of the month. I look and Him and laugh...not the reaction He expected. I tell Him I was just reading about those....He says..great we are on the same track.
Yesterday was the first Monday of the month, and yes also maintenance. Maintenance was not upstaged, it was a warm-up. After my naked kneeling, I was over Master's lap for 100 with the maintenance paddle, four sets of twenty-five. Lots of rubbing between sets, but a hard spanking. Once I am relaxed and breathing normally, Master tells me...He had decided on the looped belt for 200 more, for the harder play time.
Kind of like good news...leather, a double looped belt that has no buckle and is a soft leather, and bad news...200 hundred more. As i am digesting the news, Masters says I can choose....pleasing Him orally before or after. I decide on after...He chuckles and says, want to give yourself something to concentrate on besides your bottom?
I get up and lean over, Master nicely gives me a couple of pillows to lean into. He continues with sets of 25, stopping for some nice rubbing after each set. It takes me a couple sets to adjust, but by the time He starts on the second 100, I am in that zone. All that exists is that kiss of the leather and Master's touch. When Master gets to 200, I am a little disappointed....He knows me so well. He tells me He wants me more comfortable, I position myself on all fours...and Master continues with 2 more sets. Master is rubbing and talking to me, but it takes me a few minutes to catch up to Him. Once i am back, I quickly get up and reach for His cock...He nods...and I am switching my focus...to Him and pleasing Him. Once we are both able to chat again, Master asks if I am happy to see the return of harder play first Mondays......You can all probably guess what my answer was....
On another note...it is April, finally the start of spring, over the weekend I noticed my crocuses and daffodils were springing up, I decided I should start changing over my closet, putting away the sweatshirts and sweaters...Yesterday we had 6 inches of snow...this morning when I woke up it was 14 degrees...a new low. Last night, the weather man reported we have had more snow in April than we did in October, more snow that we had in December, and more snow than we had in March...and...there is more snow on the way. Note to self...do not change over closets until at least May....hope it is warm and sunny where you are....
hugs abby
Yesterday was the first Monday of the month, and yes also maintenance. Maintenance was not upstaged, it was a warm-up. After my naked kneeling, I was over Master's lap for 100 with the maintenance paddle, four sets of twenty-five. Lots of rubbing between sets, but a hard spanking. Once I am relaxed and breathing normally, Master tells me...He had decided on the looped belt for 200 more, for the harder play time.
Kind of like good news...leather, a double looped belt that has no buckle and is a soft leather, and bad news...200 hundred more. As i am digesting the news, Masters says I can choose....pleasing Him orally before or after. I decide on after...He chuckles and says, want to give yourself something to concentrate on besides your bottom?
I get up and lean over, Master nicely gives me a couple of pillows to lean into. He continues with sets of 25, stopping for some nice rubbing after each set. It takes me a couple sets to adjust, but by the time He starts on the second 100, I am in that zone. All that exists is that kiss of the leather and Master's touch. When Master gets to 200, I am a little disappointed....He knows me so well. He tells me He wants me more comfortable, I position myself on all fours...and Master continues with 2 more sets. Master is rubbing and talking to me, but it takes me a few minutes to catch up to Him. Once i am back, I quickly get up and reach for His cock...He nods...and I am switching my focus...to Him and pleasing Him. Once we are both able to chat again, Master asks if I am happy to see the return of harder play first Mondays......You can all probably guess what my answer was....
On another note...it is April, finally the start of spring, over the weekend I noticed my crocuses and daffodils were springing up, I decided I should start changing over my closet, putting away the sweatshirts and sweaters...Yesterday we had 6 inches of snow...this morning when I woke up it was 14 degrees...a new low. Last night, the weather man reported we have had more snow in April than we did in October, more snow that we had in December, and more snow than we had in March...and...there is more snow on the way. Note to self...do not change over closets until at least May....hope it is warm and sunny where you are....
hugs abby
Saturday, April 2, 2016
A Hand Crafted Spanking
I was trying to remember if play time with Master ever consisted of only hand spankings. Oh, there are the occasional swats when I walk by, or sometimes being held in place for a quick barrage of spanks. Then I did remember the 1,000 spank experiment. Luckily i did a post on it....yes, Master spanked me 1,000 times with His hands...he did switch hands since He did not think He should have more pain that i was having....I loved it, and it ended in fireworks for me. It did take concentration on my part, to wait for the spanking to end.
The second time was yesterday. I loss 1 1/2 pounds this week...Yeah me!! After my naked kneeling time, I am over Master's lap as we chat while He is warming my bottom. He checks...to make sure I am enjoying the warm-up....He finds evidence that I am..and I verbally tell Him how much I love His hand on my bottom. To my surprise....and delight...Master says, then let's continue with my hand only for today. Now, Master's hands can deliver quite a spanking, but the feel is so much nicer than hard wood or plastic...and yes even leather.
Master spanks harder with each set, I have no idea how many sets or spanks, but I do know I was raising my bottom, urging Him on ...wanting more. Master tells me, He cums first, so I should slow down. I quickly get up and get busy on that.....I remember to wait for permission to swallow, and am invited back over His lap. Master's gets me back to urging Him on, to squirming, and then as He is spanking hard and fast...I feel myself squirt and cum....and try to remember that breathing is good.
Master stops spanking and is rubbing my bottom, talking quietly to me until I am able to respond.
Master continues to rub and the tremors have stopped, but i am opening my legs and pushing my bottom out. He chuckles and asks...need something? I tell Him yes Sir....He tells me to ask nicely. So I ask if I can have another spanking just like that last one...He is quick to oblige. This one is just as hard and fast...but not nearly as long....and finally all I can do is lie flat over His lap, and remember Master's breathing advice. Master says, who would of guessed you could cum...twice...just from a spanking. That was not just a spanking....that was a SPANKING! Master laughs and says, that was a hand crafted (hence the title of this post) spanking. I tell Him we should try that more often...He agrees, suggesting it would be a nice reward for meeting my goal....He sure knows how to add incentive....
hugs abby
The second time was yesterday. I loss 1 1/2 pounds this week...Yeah me!! After my naked kneeling time, I am over Master's lap as we chat while He is warming my bottom. He checks...to make sure I am enjoying the warm-up....He finds evidence that I am..and I verbally tell Him how much I love His hand on my bottom. To my surprise....and delight...Master says, then let's continue with my hand only for today. Now, Master's hands can deliver quite a spanking, but the feel is so much nicer than hard wood or plastic...and yes even leather.
Master spanks harder with each set, I have no idea how many sets or spanks, but I do know I was raising my bottom, urging Him on ...wanting more. Master tells me, He cums first, so I should slow down. I quickly get up and get busy on that.....I remember to wait for permission to swallow, and am invited back over His lap. Master's gets me back to urging Him on, to squirming, and then as He is spanking hard and fast...I feel myself squirt and cum....and try to remember that breathing is good.
Master stops spanking and is rubbing my bottom, talking quietly to me until I am able to respond.
Master continues to rub and the tremors have stopped, but i am opening my legs and pushing my bottom out. He chuckles and asks...need something? I tell Him yes Sir....He tells me to ask nicely. So I ask if I can have another spanking just like that last one...He is quick to oblige. This one is just as hard and fast...but not nearly as long....and finally all I can do is lie flat over His lap, and remember Master's breathing advice. Master says, who would of guessed you could cum...twice...just from a spanking. That was not just a spanking....that was a SPANKING! Master laughs and says, that was a hand crafted (hence the title of this post) spanking. I tell Him we should try that more often...He agrees, suggesting it would be a nice reward for meeting my goal....He sure knows how to add incentive....
hugs abby
Tuesday, March 29, 2016
Catching - up post...
I hope you all had a wonderful Easter weekend.....We all gathered at my daughter's to celebrate an 8th birthday (how is that possible?)...and Easter. I so love seeing the four grands be so happy to see each other, to play together and have fun.
I have been sort of thinking of taking a break from blogging. Not sure why, just a sense that I might be getting stale...boring. But then every morning when I walk, I find myself writing entries in my head..so this morning, I decided if I was going to write in my head...it needed a place to go...and this is the place.
About 6 weeks ago, I told Master I wanted to lose 10 pounds...now if you have been reading here a while, you know, as I do, that a deal with Master is a rock solid commitment, no giving up. It's been a slow go, and I have become much less enthused. Last Monday I reported a half pound loss...which had become the average. I was over Master's lap, ready for maintenance, and Master was telling me I needed to step it up, to get to the goal, then I could be done with it. When He stopped I replied..'progress is progress'...in a somewhat sarcastic dismissive tone. As soon as the words came out....I thought, ut oh...should not have said that one aloud, never mind in that tone. As I am finishing that thought, I hear Master say....Well, then, a spanking is a spanking...as He picks up that paddle and uses it 10 times...slow and hard. Then He asks, is a spanking always a spanking or are there differences in spankings? We all know where this was going...right where Master wanted it to. He nicely counts those 10 spanks as part of maintenance, so He proceeds with the 90 left, before we move on to more pleasurable activities.
Last Thursday, we made time for some Us time...After a hand warm-up and lots of yummy leather, Master told me to thank Him...for at least 10 minutes. I looked at Him, thinking....what?....He says He wants me to suck. lick, tease His cock and to make it last for at least 10 minutes...no cumming til the 10 minutes are up. I am thinking, I am going to have to vary my approach and change from some serious sucking, etc...so some lighter more , more teasing sensations. We both made it to the 10 minutes mark.....and later when we were chatting, Master wondered how long is the average...suck? So I am asking for help....if you care to....from your experience how long does fellation last..on average?
Before I left for my daughter's Master said I had 1/2 pound grace for the weekend, I tried explaining that we were celebrating 2 major events... He had that look and tone, so I knew that it was 1/2 pound or nothing. Yesterday morning I let Master know I had gained 1 pound. His reply...okay. Just the one word, but I knew in this case, the okay, was not...that is fine, thanks for the information. It was more of....we will deal with this later, thanks for the information. I decided not to question His intentions....
Maintenance time and I am kneeling, being re-claimed, being reminded that all of me is His...always and all ways. When He is done, I stand and as we are hugging, He asks if I thought His okay meant that all was well.....I tell Him..no. He grins and says ...good. I am over His lap, He moves the pillows and my foot feels a piece of wood...not a small maintenance paddle, but something larger. It is the 'my paddleman' paddle...large enough to cover all of my bottom.....I groan, He tells me He expects progress and I did go over the 1/2 pound limit.
He starts with the first set of 25...this is still maintenance, just with a different paddle. He is spanking fairly slowly, but with 'intent'...He is making a point on my bottom. He does stop for a little bit of rubbing before the second set, after which we chat about my effort ...He knows I can do this, and once I do, I am done, unless or until I decided otherwise.
The third set is harder....As He is rubbing my bottom at the end of the set, He tells me I will say after each spank....I will make more effort with my diet...in a LOUD voice, or else the swat gets repeated. I do get the words out after each swat, along with some ouching and groaning. Time for the last five Master tells me...and before I have a chance to say anything He is in rapid fire mode...5 very fast ones, He is on 3 before i even get an ouch out. But we are done....and my determination has been renewed.
Spring and 60 degrees here tomorrow...then snow by the weekend....
Hugs abby
I have been sort of thinking of taking a break from blogging. Not sure why, just a sense that I might be getting stale...boring. But then every morning when I walk, I find myself writing entries in my head..so this morning, I decided if I was going to write in my head...it needed a place to go...and this is the place.
About 6 weeks ago, I told Master I wanted to lose 10 pounds...now if you have been reading here a while, you know, as I do, that a deal with Master is a rock solid commitment, no giving up. It's been a slow go, and I have become much less enthused. Last Monday I reported a half pound loss...which had become the average. I was over Master's lap, ready for maintenance, and Master was telling me I needed to step it up, to get to the goal, then I could be done with it. When He stopped I replied..'progress is progress'...in a somewhat sarcastic dismissive tone. As soon as the words came out....I thought, ut oh...should not have said that one aloud, never mind in that tone. As I am finishing that thought, I hear Master say....Well, then, a spanking is a spanking...as He picks up that paddle and uses it 10 times...slow and hard. Then He asks, is a spanking always a spanking or are there differences in spankings? We all know where this was going...right where Master wanted it to. He nicely counts those 10 spanks as part of maintenance, so He proceeds with the 90 left, before we move on to more pleasurable activities.
Last Thursday, we made time for some Us time...After a hand warm-up and lots of yummy leather, Master told me to thank Him...for at least 10 minutes. I looked at Him, thinking....what?....He says He wants me to suck. lick, tease His cock and to make it last for at least 10 minutes...no cumming til the 10 minutes are up. I am thinking, I am going to have to vary my approach and change from some serious sucking, etc...so some lighter more , more teasing sensations. We both made it to the 10 minutes mark.....and later when we were chatting, Master wondered how long is the average...suck? So I am asking for help....if you care to....from your experience how long does fellation last..on average?
Before I left for my daughter's Master said I had 1/2 pound grace for the weekend, I tried explaining that we were celebrating 2 major events... He had that look and tone, so I knew that it was 1/2 pound or nothing. Yesterday morning I let Master know I had gained 1 pound. His reply...okay. Just the one word, but I knew in this case, the okay, was not...that is fine, thanks for the information. It was more of....we will deal with this later, thanks for the information. I decided not to question His intentions....
Maintenance time and I am kneeling, being re-claimed, being reminded that all of me is His...always and all ways. When He is done, I stand and as we are hugging, He asks if I thought His okay meant that all was well.....I tell Him..no. He grins and says ...good. I am over His lap, He moves the pillows and my foot feels a piece of wood...not a small maintenance paddle, but something larger. It is the 'my paddleman' paddle...large enough to cover all of my bottom.....I groan, He tells me He expects progress and I did go over the 1/2 pound limit.
He starts with the first set of 25...this is still maintenance, just with a different paddle. He is spanking fairly slowly, but with 'intent'...He is making a point on my bottom. He does stop for a little bit of rubbing before the second set, after which we chat about my effort ...He knows I can do this, and once I do, I am done, unless or until I decided otherwise.
The third set is harder....As He is rubbing my bottom at the end of the set, He tells me I will say after each spank....I will make more effort with my diet...in a LOUD voice, or else the swat gets repeated. I do get the words out after each swat, along with some ouching and groaning. Time for the last five Master tells me...and before I have a chance to say anything He is in rapid fire mode...5 very fast ones, He is on 3 before i even get an ouch out. But we are done....and my determination has been renewed.
Spring and 60 degrees here tomorrow...then snow by the weekend....
Hugs abby
Monday, March 21, 2016
Questions...for Him and me!
Here are the answers to the remaining questions...thanks again to everyone who asked...and any time is a good time for a question!
Pearl asked are Master and i also a vanilla couple, and when did the relationship make the leap?
Yes, we also have a vanilla relationship. Actually started out as spanking partners, but as we started to know each other better, we realized how much...besides 'kink'...we have in common, we grew closer...it was a great surprise for both of us.
Fiona asked for both of us, what is your favorite way to bring pleasure to your partner? What is the most interesting place you have traveled and why?
I was not sure what Master would answer...,maybe the flogger, since He knows that is my favorite.
He replied...spanking you.
My favorite way of bringing pleasure to him...Hmmmm, sucking his cock, always being ready and open to him, asking for him to use his whip, surprising him with an unexpected little gift.....sorry could go on, but could not stop at one...
and..what is the most interesting place you have traveled and why?
When i asked Master this question i asked for His best vacation...He replied a sailing vacation in the Virgin islands, He rented a sail boat and sailed to all of the islands....He has a map of His route on the wall...
Mine...maybe the Bahamas for my son's wedding. It was perfect and so much fun...
Lindy asked ...What is your Master's favorite implement?
I knew it would be between His paddles and His whip....guessing one of His paddles, since those are used more often.
His answer...He is a paddleman...so a paddle, but also His hand since it is always available...and i love it :)...I do!!!!
How did He decide on 100 for maintenance?
I thought He would say because it was a round number and could be divisible in many different ways...
He said, He wanted a number that would be a good reminder that i had been spanked, but not one that would be like a punishment.
Do we socialize outside of TTWD time and do our families know about our relationship?
Yes....and yes...my family thinks He is a little too bossy...;)
Where would we travel together for a fun get away?
This one was easy ....we both agree, someplace by the water..a lake..with a sail boat, and a canoe or kayak...a secluded spot with a cabin where we could skinny dip and 'play' by the water....take long walks, and just be us....
Cat asked...do we enjoy any vanilla activities together?
Yes...we enjoy doing many things together....mostly the same every day stuff that everyone does.
Anonymous asked to we engage in vaginal sex?
Yes....and there have been times when all three 'holes' have been filled.
Eric from Eric51 Amy49 asked Master..do you find weekly maintenance keeps abby more even or was this not an issue for you two? The more time Amy and I are apart, the more difficult it is for me to read her signs.
I knew that answer to this....it was an issue...and YES!
Master said...OH YES....when spankings were spaced out...and not predictable, abby would...as I like to say...end up in the weeds.
Weekly maintenance has been very good for both of us. Abby is able to maintain her submissive mindset and punishments have been very rare...over a year now... and it sure gives me a reason to like Mondays. And a suggestion...when you are away, perhaps you could assign Amy a task to do each day....it could be the same one or something different. It could be one of your choosing or of hers....keeping a journal of her tasks so you can both share it when you return. The choice of tasks is endless...corner time, writing you a love letter, going without undies for a day, planning a special play time for when you return, listing 5 of her favorite memories of the two of you, using a plug or vibrator...whatever suits the two of you....
Abby again...just have to add my two cents worth, Master's suggestion works for me....for Us....and when one of us (mostly me) have been away...makes the reunions much sweeter...
I think I have answered all of your questions. If i somehow missed yours please let me know and i will answer. Thanks all, for making me think...and remember...and smile....as i answer your questions. And i apologize for all the strange coloring.....
hugs abby
Pearl asked are Master and i also a vanilla couple, and when did the relationship make the leap?
Yes, we also have a vanilla relationship. Actually started out as spanking partners, but as we started to know each other better, we realized how much...besides 'kink'...we have in common, we grew closer...it was a great surprise for both of us.
Fiona asked for both of us, what is your favorite way to bring pleasure to your partner? What is the most interesting place you have traveled and why?
I was not sure what Master would answer...,maybe the flogger, since He knows that is my favorite.
He replied...spanking you.
My favorite way of bringing pleasure to him...Hmmmm, sucking his cock, always being ready and open to him, asking for him to use his whip, surprising him with an unexpected little gift.....sorry could go on, but could not stop at one...
and..what is the most interesting place you have traveled and why?
When i asked Master this question i asked for His best vacation...He replied a sailing vacation in the Virgin islands, He rented a sail boat and sailed to all of the islands....He has a map of His route on the wall...
Mine...maybe the Bahamas for my son's wedding. It was perfect and so much fun...
Lindy asked ...What is your Master's favorite implement?
I knew it would be between His paddles and His whip....guessing one of His paddles, since those are used more often.
His answer...He is a paddleman...so a paddle, but also His hand since it is always available...and i love it :)...I do!!!!
How did He decide on 100 for maintenance?
I thought He would say because it was a round number and could be divisible in many different ways...
He said, He wanted a number that would be a good reminder that i had been spanked, but not one that would be like a punishment.
Do we socialize outside of TTWD time and do our families know about our relationship?
Yes....and yes...my family thinks He is a little too bossy...;)
Where would we travel together for a fun get away?
This one was easy ....we both agree, someplace by the water..a lake..with a sail boat, and a canoe or kayak...a secluded spot with a cabin where we could skinny dip and 'play' by the water....take long walks, and just be us....
Cat asked...do we enjoy any vanilla activities together?
Yes...we enjoy doing many things together....mostly the same every day stuff that everyone does.
Anonymous asked to we engage in vaginal sex?
Yes....and there have been times when all three 'holes' have been filled.
Eric from Eric51 Amy49 asked Master..do you find weekly maintenance keeps abby more even or was this not an issue for you two? The more time Amy and I are apart, the more difficult it is for me to read her signs.
I knew that answer to this....it was an issue...and YES!
Master said...OH YES....when spankings were spaced out...and not predictable, abby would...as I like to say...end up in the weeds.
Weekly maintenance has been very good for both of us. Abby is able to maintain her submissive mindset and punishments have been very rare...over a year now... and it sure gives me a reason to like Mondays. And a suggestion...when you are away, perhaps you could assign Amy a task to do each day....it could be the same one or something different. It could be one of your choosing or of hers....keeping a journal of her tasks so you can both share it when you return. The choice of tasks is endless...corner time, writing you a love letter, going without undies for a day, planning a special play time for when you return, listing 5 of her favorite memories of the two of you, using a plug or vibrator...whatever suits the two of you....
Abby again...just have to add my two cents worth, Master's suggestion works for me....for Us....and when one of us (mostly me) have been away...makes the reunions much sweeter...
I think I have answered all of your questions. If i somehow missed yours please let me know and i will answer. Thanks all, for making me think...and remember...and smile....as i answer your questions. And i apologize for all the strange coloring.....
hugs abby
Friday, March 18, 2016
Lucky Rolls of the Dice....
Earlier this week I had mentioned to Master that baseball season is almost here...baseball bet time! I am a Red Sox fan...for over 50 years...Master, well one of His few flaws is that He is a Yankees fan....
Neither one of us is inclined to change, so we often wager on the games when the two teams duke it out. I continued that it had been a long time since we have used my spanking dice, so maybe they will be part of my first wager (3 dice...one with numbers, one with positions, and one with implements).
So today, when we ready for Fun Friday Master told me to get the dice game out...i was grinning...Master said, we are only going to use one..then one with the numbers. I thought, at least it is a start. Master takes out 6 'toys', and lays them out...whip, paddleman paddle, horse hair flogger, maintenance paddle, large leather flogger, and finally the large leather strop....that was to be the order they would be used. I would roll the die...if the number was a single number, a 0 would be added after the number...so 1 thru 9, becomes 10, 20, 30.....and all the other numbers we use as they are rolled...the highest number on the die being 30.
I notice the whip is first, usually when that comes out, it is used last. I ask about a hand warm-up....He says not today...i give Him my best 'pretty please' look...it does not work, but He does tell me to start the naked kneeling. He is concentrating on lots of pinching, congratulating me on how well i am staying in position. Finally i hear...let's see what your first roll is....
It is 29, one of the higher 2 digit numbers, but a lot lower than 60.... I stand and lean against the mantle, Master decides on 3 sets, starting off on the light side, a much harder second set, and more lightly on the third...i give Him a thankful grin...He says...it is Fun Friday. Next is the paddleman paddle, this was a paddle i gifted Him with...one of those...what was i thinking??? He does love it, it covers both cheeks, has a great handle, and is one the heavy side. I roll again, hoping my luck will hold out and it is not a single number.....24! I lean over the sofa for 3 sets of 8....Master does not believe in 'whimpy' spankings....but 24 is barely a warm-up in my world.
Next up is the horse hair flogger, one of my favorites. I roll a 3...so that is 30 :). This is one of the few toys that i enjoy on my breast. Master tells me to stand hands behind me....a nice light flogging of 30 strokes on my breast....Being Master He does slip in a few extra between my legs....
Time for the maintenance paddle...I am a little surprised that He chose this one since it is used weekly. Master is telling me, maybe i used up all my lucky rolls and will probably roll another single number. Nope, I should be at a casino today...I roll 15! Three sets of 5 with the maintenance paddle, on a very well warmed bottom.....
Left are two of my favorites.....first the large leather flogger...and i roll an 8.....80 with the leather flogger...sort of like hitting the jackpot! I stand, leaning against the mantle, and Master decides on 8 sets of 10, with some delicious rubbing between sets....Will my luck hold out.....one more roll for the large leather strop.....and I roll a......6...60! I am grinning and Master is shaking His head....
When we are finished with the strop, Master suggest i should thank Him for choosing such a fun activity Fun Friday....i so agree....and only too happy to let Master in on the fun.....and of course, we then move on the lots more fun for both of us!
......Master and i have talked out the remaining questions to be answered... will get a post up soon....
hugs abby
Neither one of us is inclined to change, so we often wager on the games when the two teams duke it out. I continued that it had been a long time since we have used my spanking dice, so maybe they will be part of my first wager (3 dice...one with numbers, one with positions, and one with implements).
So today, when we ready for Fun Friday Master told me to get the dice game out...i was grinning...Master said, we are only going to use one..then one with the numbers. I thought, at least it is a start. Master takes out 6 'toys', and lays them out...whip, paddleman paddle, horse hair flogger, maintenance paddle, large leather flogger, and finally the large leather strop....that was to be the order they would be used. I would roll the die...if the number was a single number, a 0 would be added after the number...so 1 thru 9, becomes 10, 20, 30.....and all the other numbers we use as they are rolled...the highest number on the die being 30.
I notice the whip is first, usually when that comes out, it is used last. I ask about a hand warm-up....He says not today...i give Him my best 'pretty please' look...it does not work, but He does tell me to start the naked kneeling. He is concentrating on lots of pinching, congratulating me on how well i am staying in position. Finally i hear...let's see what your first roll is....
It is 29, one of the higher 2 digit numbers, but a lot lower than 60.... I stand and lean against the mantle, Master decides on 3 sets, starting off on the light side, a much harder second set, and more lightly on the third...i give Him a thankful grin...He says...it is Fun Friday. Next is the paddleman paddle, this was a paddle i gifted Him with...one of those...what was i thinking??? He does love it, it covers both cheeks, has a great handle, and is one the heavy side. I roll again, hoping my luck will hold out and it is not a single number.....24! I lean over the sofa for 3 sets of 8....Master does not believe in 'whimpy' spankings....but 24 is barely a warm-up in my world.
Next up is the horse hair flogger, one of my favorites. I roll a 3...so that is 30 :). This is one of the few toys that i enjoy on my breast. Master tells me to stand hands behind me....a nice light flogging of 30 strokes on my breast....Being Master He does slip in a few extra between my legs....
Time for the maintenance paddle...I am a little surprised that He chose this one since it is used weekly. Master is telling me, maybe i used up all my lucky rolls and will probably roll another single number. Nope, I should be at a casino today...I roll 15! Three sets of 5 with the maintenance paddle, on a very well warmed bottom.....
Left are two of my favorites.....first the large leather flogger...and i roll an 8.....80 with the leather flogger...sort of like hitting the jackpot! I stand, leaning against the mantle, and Master decides on 8 sets of 10, with some delicious rubbing between sets....Will my luck hold out.....one more roll for the large leather strop.....and I roll a......6...60! I am grinning and Master is shaking His head....
When we are finished with the strop, Master suggest i should thank Him for choosing such a fun activity Fun Friday....i so agree....and only too happy to let Master in on the fun.....and of course, we then move on the lots more fun for both of us!
......Master and i have talked out the remaining questions to be answered... will get a post up soon....
hugs abby
Sunday, March 13, 2016
More Questions...so More Answers....
Downunder Don asks if Master and I ever talk about what He gets out of spanking me.....
Yes, we have. The first time was shortly after we had started on this adventure. I was struggling (with a lot of things), but one of the main issues was...if He spanks me and i want, need or even crave it, does that make this all about me? How is that submissive? Master said to me....i am the opposite side of His coin..."He is the Dominant side of the coin, i am the submissive side. I complete Him." Those words have stuck with me.....together we are whole. I feed His feeling of dominance, He gets to express it daily.....in return, my submission is also fed.
Ella What happens during a discipline spanking? Are there rules?
Of course there are rules and it is a ritual. A punishment spanking happens in the basement. Yes, He opens the door and i make the march of doom down the stairs into the basement. There is no chatter, I am told to bare myself, and get in position. Leaning over hanging onto the seat of a chair that is always down there. (in the early years, there was a treadmill, i had to stand on the treadmill and hang on..not it was never turned on). I am reminded that if my hands leave the chair, the stroke will be repeated. Master has this large paddle ball paddle that He purchased at a garage sale for one dollar. He tells me how many....i cannot remember, but 25 seems to ring a bell. He spanks slowly, scolding very loudly, no breaks, no rubbing...just spanks and loud scolding...and He is an excellent scolder. When He is done, i am told to stand, and pull up my underwear. I am reminded there will be no permissions for 24 hours, we then hug and i am told i have a clean slate.
I can happily report that it has been over a year, since one of these....
rperez asks....what does my kneeling time consists of and how long does it last?
Kneeling time is what Master calls re-claiming time. Back when i was still teaching, kids were still home, life was much busier. Spankings were not as regular as they are now. Master and i would meet, and depending on the kind of day i had...i might not be in the most submissive of moods. Master's solution..reclaiming time. Once i am naked, i kneel, hands behind my back, Master stands behind me. He starts by telling me that all of me is His....His hands cover my ears and eyes, telling me to block out any voices or thoughts...He touches all the parts of my body, reminding me that they are His. While He is doing this, He is quietly talking talking, ...by the time He is done, all of me is quiet, and focused on Him. He then helps me up....How long...maybe 10 minutes..,
Wilma Rubble asks...from where i am now, looking back, how do i see myself? Do I feel that the submissive part of me was always there, that perhaps others saw, but that i could not put a voice to...not spanking, but true submission?
Interesting question.....When i first met Master, it was just to get a spanking...yes one, so i could get that darn fantasy out of my system. Well one led to another, and then another...but i never associated spanking with submission. The first time Master referred to me as submissive, i laughed and said...No Way! Well, slowly He showed me the way.
I have to add, I had felt for a long time, that something was missing from my life. I was not sure what it was i was longing for...i was pretty sure i would never find whatever it was. I now know....that nagging little voice was trying to tell me....you don't have to be the one in charge all of the time, the go-to person for everyone. I only started to hear that voice when it belonged to Master, when i realized how much more content and happy i was as His submissive. He deserves a lot of credit, i was very stubborn and not an easy sell.....but slowly, i started to know....to feel....that i needed to let that part of me that i had buried so long ago, breathe and exist. Yes, i do think the submissive part of me was always there, i was too busy being in charge to even consider letting that part see the light of day.
Thanks for the questions..
hugs abby
Yes, we have. The first time was shortly after we had started on this adventure. I was struggling (with a lot of things), but one of the main issues was...if He spanks me and i want, need or even crave it, does that make this all about me? How is that submissive? Master said to me....i am the opposite side of His coin..."He is the Dominant side of the coin, i am the submissive side. I complete Him." Those words have stuck with me.....together we are whole. I feed His feeling of dominance, He gets to express it daily.....in return, my submission is also fed.
Ella What happens during a discipline spanking? Are there rules?
Of course there are rules and it is a ritual. A punishment spanking happens in the basement. Yes, He opens the door and i make the march of doom down the stairs into the basement. There is no chatter, I am told to bare myself, and get in position. Leaning over hanging onto the seat of a chair that is always down there. (in the early years, there was a treadmill, i had to stand on the treadmill and hang on..not it was never turned on). I am reminded that if my hands leave the chair, the stroke will be repeated. Master has this large paddle ball paddle that He purchased at a garage sale for one dollar. He tells me how many....i cannot remember, but 25 seems to ring a bell. He spanks slowly, scolding very loudly, no breaks, no rubbing...just spanks and loud scolding...and He is an excellent scolder. When He is done, i am told to stand, and pull up my underwear. I am reminded there will be no permissions for 24 hours, we then hug and i am told i have a clean slate.
I can happily report that it has been over a year, since one of these....
rperez asks....what does my kneeling time consists of and how long does it last?
Kneeling time is what Master calls re-claiming time. Back when i was still teaching, kids were still home, life was much busier. Spankings were not as regular as they are now. Master and i would meet, and depending on the kind of day i had...i might not be in the most submissive of moods. Master's solution..reclaiming time. Once i am naked, i kneel, hands behind my back, Master stands behind me. He starts by telling me that all of me is His....His hands cover my ears and eyes, telling me to block out any voices or thoughts...He touches all the parts of my body, reminding me that they are His. While He is doing this, He is quietly talking talking, ...by the time He is done, all of me is quiet, and focused on Him. He then helps me up....How long...maybe 10 minutes..,
Wilma Rubble asks...from where i am now, looking back, how do i see myself? Do I feel that the submissive part of me was always there, that perhaps others saw, but that i could not put a voice to...not spanking, but true submission?
Interesting question.....When i first met Master, it was just to get a spanking...yes one, so i could get that darn fantasy out of my system. Well one led to another, and then another...but i never associated spanking with submission. The first time Master referred to me as submissive, i laughed and said...No Way! Well, slowly He showed me the way.
I have to add, I had felt for a long time, that something was missing from my life. I was not sure what it was i was longing for...i was pretty sure i would never find whatever it was. I now know....that nagging little voice was trying to tell me....you don't have to be the one in charge all of the time, the go-to person for everyone. I only started to hear that voice when it belonged to Master, when i realized how much more content and happy i was as His submissive. He deserves a lot of credit, i was very stubborn and not an easy sell.....but slowly, i started to know....to feel....that i needed to let that part of me that i had buried so long ago, breathe and exist. Yes, i do think the submissive part of me was always there, i was too busy being in charge to even consider letting that part see the light of day.
Thanks for the questions..
hugs abby
Friday, March 11, 2016
Master's turn to answer....
.......Usually when Master answers March questions i anticipate His answers, and write my thoughts before His answers...it is kind of fun to see how close I come...and i am not bragging, but i usually do pretty well.
Ronnie asks do Master or i have a spanking fantasy that has not been fulfilled? An item on my bucket list?
As for myself....Master truly has fulfilled all of the simple fantasies I had when we met...and some that I did not even know I had...He is very creative, and likes to surprise me, often it seems He knows just what I am in the mood for or need. He will ask me if there is something I want to try....and do His best to make it happen.
An item on my bucket list would be...a hot air balloon ride!
Master replied that I have fulfilled His main fantasies...and any new ones that arise....well He has a willing partner...
Mona Lisa asked: What would be Master's reaction if I said no more maintenance spankings....no more punishments, we will have just fun spankings.
I thought about this one for a bit, Master and i started out just fun spankings. We have come a long way since then in many ways...I really honestly thought Master would agree.....no more M/s, rules, maintenance or punishment....I have to add, it would feel like it was such a gigantic step backwards, like something was missing.....I cannot imagine it ever happening.
Master replied pretty quickly....you gave me your consent to be my submissive, to take me as your Master, if you take the consent back, and we we are no long M/s. We still spank, if you agree to.
DelFonte asks...what does Master get out of maintenance, is it something He needs too...
Hmmmm, I think it makes His Monday's much more interesting...a good way to start the week. I also think He likes that it does make a difference....there is no way i am going to 'brat' just to get a harder spanking....I am not sure He needs it, in the same way I do...but I do think that it feeds His dominance.
Master said, very quickly, He absolutely gets something out of maintenance. He wakes up on Mondays and smiles at the thought that i will be over His lap and He will be 'coloring' my bottom to a nice shade of red. (much like this color...;). It feeds His dominant nature, knowing that i will kneel in front of Him, and submit to a spanking, that will be a hard one, and i will accept it. He also is pleased that it has served its purpose...no punishments for over a year. Also.....after the spanking...there is some sucking and cumming...
If there are any more questions for Master He welcomes them...and I would say i did pretty well anticipating His answers....
hugs abby
Ronnie asks do Master or i have a spanking fantasy that has not been fulfilled? An item on my bucket list?
As for myself....Master truly has fulfilled all of the simple fantasies I had when we met...and some that I did not even know I had...He is very creative, and likes to surprise me, often it seems He knows just what I am in the mood for or need. He will ask me if there is something I want to try....and do His best to make it happen.
An item on my bucket list would be...a hot air balloon ride!
Master replied that I have fulfilled His main fantasies...and any new ones that arise....well He has a willing partner...
Mona Lisa asked: What would be Master's reaction if I said no more maintenance spankings....no more punishments, we will have just fun spankings.
I thought about this one for a bit, Master and i started out just fun spankings. We have come a long way since then in many ways...I really honestly thought Master would agree.....no more M/s, rules, maintenance or punishment....I have to add, it would feel like it was such a gigantic step backwards, like something was missing.....I cannot imagine it ever happening.
Master replied pretty quickly....you gave me your consent to be my submissive, to take me as your Master, if you take the consent back, and we we are no long M/s. We still spank, if you agree to.
DelFonte asks...what does Master get out of maintenance, is it something He needs too...
Hmmmm, I think it makes His Monday's much more interesting...a good way to start the week. I also think He likes that it does make a difference....there is no way i am going to 'brat' just to get a harder spanking....I am not sure He needs it, in the same way I do...but I do think that it feeds His dominance.
Master said, very quickly, He absolutely gets something out of maintenance. He wakes up on Mondays and smiles at the thought that i will be over His lap and He will be 'coloring' my bottom to a nice shade of red. (much like this color...;). It feeds His dominant nature, knowing that i will kneel in front of Him, and submit to a spanking, that will be a hard one, and i will accept it. He also is pleased that it has served its purpose...no punishments for over a year. Also.....after the spanking...there is some sucking and cumming...
If there are any more questions for Master He welcomes them...and I would say i did pretty well anticipating His answers....
hugs abby
Tuesday, March 8, 2016
Maintenance Tuesday....and a couple more answers...
M/M day, was M/T (just doesn't have the same ring to it), does it? Master has been struggling with a cold, and He is finally getting the better of it...guess germs are one of the few things He does not control. After He assured me He was much better, today became maintenance day.
After my naked kneeling time, i was over His lap for my hand warm-up. Master reminded me that i did not lose any weight last week, so I needed to show a loss this week...During this time Master and i often chat about life or us...or just strange things that pop up. One of the first things that attracted me to Him was His ability to spar with me verbally...to have a response to almost whatever i throw at Him...and to have a sense of humor about it...most of the time.
Today, Master asks if i am warmed-up enough...of course I say no Sir! He tells me I should look at maintenance as filling up my tank....giving me the incentive I need to have a good week, like a car that needs gas, it has not been bad or naughty, it just needs gas...or incentive...to keep going. I reply...true, then the car is ready to get on with the week and have some fun. Master says...as long as the there is no joy riding..because then the fun has to be paid for.....the car would be grounded....i would be spanked. We have these weird conversations often.
It is time to start maintenance, the only words i am uttering are ouch...4 sets of 25...rubbing between sets, and i get to catch my breath. Master then, of course, checks...and says some part of you was enjoying....'she' is an idiot, i reply. Master then shows me the rewards of taking my maintenance spanking well, and after i explode once, Master is using just the tips of His fingers and nails over my still warmed bottom. I suddenly start to squirm, Master asks if i can feel the electricity too....He is barely touching me, but it is driving me crazy. Master starts using His voice to urge me on, to let go, to feel our connection...and when Master tells me to cum for Him, I do.....until i really do collapse. Master is talking, massaging, getting me to recover...and when i do...I ask how did that happen...He just laughs and says, He knows how to prime a car ....
First question is from lindy...how long have we known each other and how did we meet?
We have known each other for a little over 15 years. We first chatted on line, at the time I was chatting to a few gentlemen. Then, my youngest had an emergency that required my full attention. I told everyone i was not going to be online for a while due to a family emergency. I got a couple good byes...and a couple not so nice comments about making something up....but Master said He would pray for us, and about once a week He would send me a note, letting me know He was thinking about me....So when things settled a bit, I let Him know.
We chatted for a couple more weeks, and Master said it was time we met. I had never met someone just from chatting on-line, and honestly never thought i would. But i decided to take a chance...Master gave me a choice of coffee or a beer....I told Him, beer of course! He laughed and said He liked my honesty. I showed up at the restaurant/bar on time, and sat in my car for almost 15 minutes, trying to decide if i should actually go it. Finally i told myself, it's only a beer.....
We saw each other for the first time, Master got the beers, and we sat and chatted....for a very long time. I was so relaxed, i could not believe it....we laughed, we shared stories, and He used the word spanking a LOT..and we were in a public place. Even then, it was like He could read my mind...which was a little un-nerving. And that was the best beer i have ever had.......
Eric51 Amy 49 asks...When we first started were we in an equal partnership or was He 'Master' from the get go? Secondly, if i could add anything to the dynamic what would i add.....what would i take away?
When we first started, we were spanking, or play partners. We started with a hand spanking, over clothes...and moved on to all the lovely (and not so lovely) 'toys' in His bag. We would meet, maybe every four to six weeks, we kept in contact through chats and emails. The first time He used the word submissive i laughed and said i did not have a submissive bone in my body....He then asked....why did i submit to spankings? So, slowly we started down the M/s path, the trip of a life time!
Your second question, I have been thinking about for a long time.
It is a toughie....We have grown in our dynamic, adding new experiences, growing in our connection, in our M/s.....so, i am not really sure what i would add. Maybe, going to a club, or a party to meet other like minded couples. What i would take away....and no it is not punishment....that has its place, but it is related to the first part of this answer. I would take away the "veil"....wouldn't it be wonderful if we could talk freely to others, and have them not judge or think the worse of us.
hugs abby
After my naked kneeling time, i was over His lap for my hand warm-up. Master reminded me that i did not lose any weight last week, so I needed to show a loss this week...During this time Master and i often chat about life or us...or just strange things that pop up. One of the first things that attracted me to Him was His ability to spar with me verbally...to have a response to almost whatever i throw at Him...and to have a sense of humor about it...most of the time.
Today, Master asks if i am warmed-up enough...of course I say no Sir! He tells me I should look at maintenance as filling up my tank....giving me the incentive I need to have a good week, like a car that needs gas, it has not been bad or naughty, it just needs gas...or incentive...to keep going. I reply...true, then the car is ready to get on with the week and have some fun. Master says...as long as the there is no joy riding..because then the fun has to be paid for.....the car would be grounded....i would be spanked. We have these weird conversations often.
It is time to start maintenance, the only words i am uttering are ouch...4 sets of 25...rubbing between sets, and i get to catch my breath. Master then, of course, checks...and says some part of you was enjoying....'she' is an idiot, i reply. Master then shows me the rewards of taking my maintenance spanking well, and after i explode once, Master is using just the tips of His fingers and nails over my still warmed bottom. I suddenly start to squirm, Master asks if i can feel the electricity too....He is barely touching me, but it is driving me crazy. Master starts using His voice to urge me on, to let go, to feel our connection...and when Master tells me to cum for Him, I do.....until i really do collapse. Master is talking, massaging, getting me to recover...and when i do...I ask how did that happen...He just laughs and says, He knows how to prime a car ....
First question is from lindy...how long have we known each other and how did we meet?
We have known each other for a little over 15 years. We first chatted on line, at the time I was chatting to a few gentlemen. Then, my youngest had an emergency that required my full attention. I told everyone i was not going to be online for a while due to a family emergency. I got a couple good byes...and a couple not so nice comments about making something up....but Master said He would pray for us, and about once a week He would send me a note, letting me know He was thinking about me....So when things settled a bit, I let Him know.
We chatted for a couple more weeks, and Master said it was time we met. I had never met someone just from chatting on-line, and honestly never thought i would. But i decided to take a chance...Master gave me a choice of coffee or a beer....I told Him, beer of course! He laughed and said He liked my honesty. I showed up at the restaurant/bar on time, and sat in my car for almost 15 minutes, trying to decide if i should actually go it. Finally i told myself, it's only a beer.....
We saw each other for the first time, Master got the beers, and we sat and chatted....for a very long time. I was so relaxed, i could not believe it....we laughed, we shared stories, and He used the word spanking a LOT..and we were in a public place. Even then, it was like He could read my mind...which was a little un-nerving. And that was the best beer i have ever had.......
Eric51 Amy 49 asks...When we first started were we in an equal partnership or was He 'Master' from the get go? Secondly, if i could add anything to the dynamic what would i add.....what would i take away?
When we first started, we were spanking, or play partners. We started with a hand spanking, over clothes...and moved on to all the lovely (and not so lovely) 'toys' in His bag. We would meet, maybe every four to six weeks, we kept in contact through chats and emails. The first time He used the word submissive i laughed and said i did not have a submissive bone in my body....He then asked....why did i submit to spankings? So, slowly we started down the M/s path, the trip of a life time!
Your second question, I have been thinking about for a long time.
It is a toughie....We have grown in our dynamic, adding new experiences, growing in our connection, in our M/s.....so, i am not really sure what i would add. Maybe, going to a club, or a party to meet other like minded couples. What i would take away....and no it is not punishment....that has its place, but it is related to the first part of this answer. I would take away the "veil"....wouldn't it be wonderful if we could talk freely to others, and have them not judge or think the worse of us.
hugs abby
Monday, March 7, 2016
More answers.... to Minelle's and Cat's questions...
Minelle asks....Have you laughed at some of your earlier thoughts, boundaries or beliefs?
I have....not as much as Master has, but i have. I discovered this part of me...or maybe let it out.....late in life. My kids were all in college, I was well into my career, and was pretty much settled in. When i met Master, my thought was.....I will let Him spank me once...and then i will be done thinking and fantasizing about such things for good. Oh, i so had no idea that i was about to start a journey that would continue to surprise me.
Then He wanted me to call Him...Sir. Sir?....the only time i used Sir was when an older man held a door open for me and i thanked him. Certainly not for someone i was going to be in a relationship with...
Maybe the biggest area where i was wrong...happily ....was sexually. I had been convinced, that i was not a sexual person, that i was incapable of having an orgasm, that i was not desirable.....it took a long time and lots of patience, but Master certainly changed all that...and at about the time that i am asking for a third permission...we both laugh at the thought that orgasms were not possible for me.
Honestly, i could probably list most of the things Master and i have done as things that i was positive i would never agree to...let alone enjoy.
Luckily, i met just the man who had the patience to hang in there with me and prove me wrong.
Thanks for an interesting question...
Cat questioned the use of a larger paddle for a maintenance session. Would that not make it discipline?
There is a paddle that Master just about always uses for maintenance, it is smallish, not light, but not heavy. Maintenance is described by Master as a spanking that is hard enough to prevent me from even thinking that a discipline or punishment spanking might be something i would want to happen. A couple weeks ago Master used a larger paddle for maintenance....it was a surprise, but it was not Master's largest paddle. Master has quite a collection of paddles...more that any one person should have, in my opinion. He loves His paddles. The punishment one is a very large paddle ball paddle that He bought at a garage sale, of all places, for one dollar. I have offered before, and the offer still stands, I will pay ten times that...and the postage to mail it...if anyone wants to see it (and keep it) for themselves. In case anyone is wondering...it has been well over a year since the last punishment spanking...and i hope i have not just jinxed myself!
Thanks Cat.
I have....not as much as Master has, but i have. I discovered this part of me...or maybe let it out.....late in life. My kids were all in college, I was well into my career, and was pretty much settled in. When i met Master, my thought was.....I will let Him spank me once...and then i will be done thinking and fantasizing about such things for good. Oh, i so had no idea that i was about to start a journey that would continue to surprise me.
Then He wanted me to call Him...Sir. Sir?....the only time i used Sir was when an older man held a door open for me and i thanked him. Certainly not for someone i was going to be in a relationship with...
Maybe the biggest area where i was wrong...happily ....was sexually. I had been convinced, that i was not a sexual person, that i was incapable of having an orgasm, that i was not desirable.....it took a long time and lots of patience, but Master certainly changed all that...and at about the time that i am asking for a third permission...we both laugh at the thought that orgasms were not possible for me.
Honestly, i could probably list most of the things Master and i have done as things that i was positive i would never agree to...let alone enjoy.
Luckily, i met just the man who had the patience to hang in there with me and prove me wrong.
Thanks for an interesting question...
Cat questioned the use of a larger paddle for a maintenance session. Would that not make it discipline?
There is a paddle that Master just about always uses for maintenance, it is smallish, not light, but not heavy. Maintenance is described by Master as a spanking that is hard enough to prevent me from even thinking that a discipline or punishment spanking might be something i would want to happen. A couple weeks ago Master used a larger paddle for maintenance....it was a surprise, but it was not Master's largest paddle. Master has quite a collection of paddles...more that any one person should have, in my opinion. He loves His paddles. The punishment one is a very large paddle ball paddle that He bought at a garage sale, of all places, for one dollar. I have offered before, and the offer still stands, I will pay ten times that...and the postage to mail it...if anyone wants to see it (and keep it) for themselves. In case anyone is wondering...it has been well over a year since the last punishment spanking...and i hope i have not just jinxed myself!
Thanks Cat.
Friday, March 4, 2016
Add another candle to that cake....
Why is it when you are a kid, you wait forever for your birthday...then later in life, they seem to pop up before you realize it. I am from a long line of relatives who believe that celebrating a birthday is better than the alternative....and celebrating was always extended as long as possible. The celebrating started last Sunday and has continued with various people all week....the 'official' day was celebrated with some just Master and I time.
Master had asked if i had any special requests, i decided to let Him choose, He knows me pretty well. After some hugs and chat, i looked around to see all of my favorites laid out....and one small wooden paddle, and the whip...Master asked if He had chosen wisely, He laughed at my...mostly...answer. He gives me that "what are you waiting for" look, so i undress and kneel. Master is telling me as He touches every part of me, that this celebration is just about us...the us that only we (well and all of you) know about. The us that is at our core.....
He then tells me to go get the paddle, and then get over His lap. I sort of give Him a 'look'.....He says it is for my official birthday spanking...has to be a paddling. I am not so sure i agree, but i do mention that a long hand warm-up would be nice, which He agrees is a good start. I will get my age with each implement, with one added for good luck....and let's just say it was more than 60.
After a very wonderfully long hand warm-up, Master starts in with the paddle, for my 'official' birthday spanking. They are not the hardest, but Master has never quite caught on to a 'light' spanking. He does stop after every decade to do some rubbing during which we talk about what i remember most from that time. The first few breaks are over quickly but that last few more than make up for it, as we recall our journey.
Master then tells me i can pick the order for the spankings to come, so I choose to start with the beaver tail....it is like the continuation of a warm-up. Master divides this one into 4 sets, and i am already starting to feel like jello. I choose the double tongue strap next, so i need to get myself up and leaning over.....this feels a lot like the belt, but my jello feeling is being replaced with a lot of panting. I chose the horse hair flogger next, it is a lot lighter than the regular flogger and more of a sensual flavor to it. Master tells me to hold my breast out for Him with my hands under them so they are out of the way. This is one sensation i actually love on my breast. When Master is finished, He starts to swish the strips all over my front and back, over my nipples, under my breast, long slow strokes, until i can barely stand and Master has to remind me that i do not have permission to cum.....yet. I can feel myself start to drip, as i groan.
The large leather strop is next, and my bottom is so warmed up, and the rest of me is still trying to come back to earth a bit, it feels perfect.....i am sticking my bottom up and out, silently...or not so silently...asking for more. Saved for last, my favorite, the large leather flogger. They are all on my back, and with the flogging and the rubbing, and all that came before, i am sure i am leaving spots of the carpet. The whip is left, but Master tells me He just put it there so i would think about it....since i only ask for it because i know He loves it.
Master then asks if i would like to show Him that i have enjoyed the birthday party He planned, so i am on my knees showing Master that He is a terrific party planner. Just at the point where i am getting ready for Master to fill my mouth, He says, i have a surprise for You....a cum facial. Before i can even think about it, Master is rubbing and wiping His cum off my face and letting me suck it off His fingers and hand. ( i later admitted to Master, that i had been wondering what this would feel like, and the pictures intrigued me....and the next time i want Him to take a picture of me so i can see what i look like, if there is a next time. I am pretty sure there will be.)
Master then hands me a pillow, tells me lie on my back, and tells me i have permissions to cum whenever i am ready...it does not take long before i am ready....and ready...and ready. Finally i can barely breathe, cannot speak or move, and Master moves up next me, pulls me into His fur, and we just recover. When i am capable of thought and speech, i look at Him and say...not bad for an old lady...He laughs and says....not bad for an old man...Trust me on this....sometimes, if you are lucky enough....getting older is truly in many ways....getting better!
hugs abby
Master had asked if i had any special requests, i decided to let Him choose, He knows me pretty well. After some hugs and chat, i looked around to see all of my favorites laid out....and one small wooden paddle, and the whip...Master asked if He had chosen wisely, He laughed at my...mostly...answer. He gives me that "what are you waiting for" look, so i undress and kneel. Master is telling me as He touches every part of me, that this celebration is just about us...the us that only we (well and all of you) know about. The us that is at our core.....
He then tells me to go get the paddle, and then get over His lap. I sort of give Him a 'look'.....He says it is for my official birthday spanking...has to be a paddling. I am not so sure i agree, but i do mention that a long hand warm-up would be nice, which He agrees is a good start. I will get my age with each implement, with one added for good luck....and let's just say it was more than 60.
After a very wonderfully long hand warm-up, Master starts in with the paddle, for my 'official' birthday spanking. They are not the hardest, but Master has never quite caught on to a 'light' spanking. He does stop after every decade to do some rubbing during which we talk about what i remember most from that time. The first few breaks are over quickly but that last few more than make up for it, as we recall our journey.
Master then tells me i can pick the order for the spankings to come, so I choose to start with the beaver tail....it is like the continuation of a warm-up. Master divides this one into 4 sets, and i am already starting to feel like jello. I choose the double tongue strap next, so i need to get myself up and leaning over.....this feels a lot like the belt, but my jello feeling is being replaced with a lot of panting. I chose the horse hair flogger next, it is a lot lighter than the regular flogger and more of a sensual flavor to it. Master tells me to hold my breast out for Him with my hands under them so they are out of the way. This is one sensation i actually love on my breast. When Master is finished, He starts to swish the strips all over my front and back, over my nipples, under my breast, long slow strokes, until i can barely stand and Master has to remind me that i do not have permission to cum.....yet. I can feel myself start to drip, as i groan.
The large leather strop is next, and my bottom is so warmed up, and the rest of me is still trying to come back to earth a bit, it feels perfect.....i am sticking my bottom up and out, silently...or not so silently...asking for more. Saved for last, my favorite, the large leather flogger. They are all on my back, and with the flogging and the rubbing, and all that came before, i am sure i am leaving spots of the carpet. The whip is left, but Master tells me He just put it there so i would think about it....since i only ask for it because i know He loves it.
Master then asks if i would like to show Him that i have enjoyed the birthday party He planned, so i am on my knees showing Master that He is a terrific party planner. Just at the point where i am getting ready for Master to fill my mouth, He says, i have a surprise for You....a cum facial. Before i can even think about it, Master is rubbing and wiping His cum off my face and letting me suck it off His fingers and hand. ( i later admitted to Master, that i had been wondering what this would feel like, and the pictures intrigued me....and the next time i want Him to take a picture of me so i can see what i look like, if there is a next time. I am pretty sure there will be.)
Master then hands me a pillow, tells me lie on my back, and tells me i have permissions to cum whenever i am ready...it does not take long before i am ready....and ready...and ready. Finally i can barely breathe, cannot speak or move, and Master moves up next me, pulls me into His fur, and we just recover. When i am capable of thought and speech, i look at Him and say...not bad for an old lady...He laughs and says....not bad for an old man...Trust me on this....sometimes, if you are lucky enough....getting older is truly in many ways....getting better!
hugs abby
Tuesday, March 1, 2016
Sunny's meme.....leap day maintenance...and questions anyone??
I know that is quite a catch-all title. Truth is i have not posted as much because i sort of feel like i do a lot of repeating myself....and the last thing i want to be is BORING! But I can never resist a meme, and I do love question month....so..
Sunny's meme first..
1. Are you on facebook? Yes, i am...I have lots of family and friends spread all over the country and it is a wonderful...and easy...way to keep up with each other.
2. If the answer is yes, do you respond to what you consider stupid posts? Rarely...it just encourages more of them.
3. Name one of your favorite bugaboos. Right now it the political antics going on ...keeps the smart, responsible people away from wanting the job...and gives a terrible example...enough ranting.
4. How many FB friends do you have. I just went and checked..says 362. Some are gaming friends, and I had 20 cousins growing up...most of whom are married and grandparents....
5. Assuming you have an account how often do you check? Daily, sometimes a couple times a day.
6. Do you have more than one email account? Yes, I have two.
7. Do you twitter or is it tweet? Whichever it is....no.
8. Do you have a mobile phone? I do.
9. Is it a smart phone or one of the old fashioned kind? My kids upgraded me to a smart phone at Christmas...I am trying to learn one new thing a week about it...
10. How often to do you check for texts, messages or other wise? Usually when I hear it ping..although I have been known to ignore it.
11. Do you get accused of being on the phone or computer too much.
No....I have even been known to travel without my lap top.
12. Would you rather read an e-reader or an actual book?
E-readers are great for traveling...light weight, and there is always another book waiting. I actually still do get books from the library.
13. The title of the last book you read and genre.
A mystery..for my book club, I tend to avoid mysteries...Sweetness at the Bottom of the Pie.
Thanks Sunny for using your insomnia to write these questions...
Yesterday was leap year day...just what we need, and extra Monday, and for me a maintenance spanking. Master thought that was funny and appropriate...I disagreed. But, I was kneeling naked, being reclaimed. Usually the maintenance paddle is visible, but i do not see it. Turns out, Master decided to change things up a little....He shows me the "Paddleman" paddle...it is much larger and heavier. I can't help myself...I give Him a...'you have go to be kidding' look...it does not help.
When I am over His lap, Master....the kind man He is...says, since the paddle covers both cheeks, each spank will count as double...fifty spanks, instead of one hundred. Now that is good news, but I know this man...the spanks will probably be harder, since He will not go easier on my bottom. He does give me a hand warm-up, but as soon as the paddling starts i am ouching. He does stop after each set of 10 for some rubbing, which helps and gives me time to catch my breath. The last 10 are slow and hard....but we are finished. Master checks and chuckles.....it seems that at least one part of me, did not agree with my protestations.
After several permissions, we are chatting and I ask Master if He will be using a different paddle every week? ( I am not sure how many He has...probably around 12 or so...) He thinks about it and replies....no, He likes maintenance to be basically the same each week, both of us knowing what to expect....and He likes the ritual of it. I am not surprised by His answer....so next week will be back to maintenance paddle and 100 spanks.
And finally...March is question month in blog land. Not sure there are any more questions for me to answer...but if you ask, I will answer....
Have a good week all...
hugs abby
Sunny's meme first..
1. Are you on facebook? Yes, i am...I have lots of family and friends spread all over the country and it is a wonderful...and easy...way to keep up with each other.
2. If the answer is yes, do you respond to what you consider stupid posts? Rarely...it just encourages more of them.
3. Name one of your favorite bugaboos. Right now it the political antics going on ...keeps the smart, responsible people away from wanting the job...and gives a terrible example...enough ranting.
4. How many FB friends do you have. I just went and checked..says 362. Some are gaming friends, and I had 20 cousins growing up...most of whom are married and grandparents....
5. Assuming you have an account how often do you check? Daily, sometimes a couple times a day.
6. Do you have more than one email account? Yes, I have two.
7. Do you twitter or is it tweet? Whichever it is....no.
8. Do you have a mobile phone? I do.
9. Is it a smart phone or one of the old fashioned kind? My kids upgraded me to a smart phone at Christmas...I am trying to learn one new thing a week about it...
10. How often to do you check for texts, messages or other wise? Usually when I hear it ping..although I have been known to ignore it.
11. Do you get accused of being on the phone or computer too much.
No....I have even been known to travel without my lap top.
12. Would you rather read an e-reader or an actual book?
E-readers are great for traveling...light weight, and there is always another book waiting. I actually still do get books from the library.
13. The title of the last book you read and genre.
A mystery..for my book club, I tend to avoid mysteries...Sweetness at the Bottom of the Pie.
Thanks Sunny for using your insomnia to write these questions...
Yesterday was leap year day...just what we need, and extra Monday, and for me a maintenance spanking. Master thought that was funny and appropriate...I disagreed. But, I was kneeling naked, being reclaimed. Usually the maintenance paddle is visible, but i do not see it. Turns out, Master decided to change things up a little....He shows me the "Paddleman" paddle...it is much larger and heavier. I can't help myself...I give Him a...'you have go to be kidding' look...it does not help.
When I am over His lap, Master....the kind man He is...says, since the paddle covers both cheeks, each spank will count as double...fifty spanks, instead of one hundred. Now that is good news, but I know this man...the spanks will probably be harder, since He will not go easier on my bottom. He does give me a hand warm-up, but as soon as the paddling starts i am ouching. He does stop after each set of 10 for some rubbing, which helps and gives me time to catch my breath. The last 10 are slow and hard....but we are finished. Master checks and chuckles.....it seems that at least one part of me, did not agree with my protestations.
After several permissions, we are chatting and I ask Master if He will be using a different paddle every week? ( I am not sure how many He has...probably around 12 or so...) He thinks about it and replies....no, He likes maintenance to be basically the same each week, both of us knowing what to expect....and He likes the ritual of it. I am not surprised by His answer....so next week will be back to maintenance paddle and 100 spanks.
And finally...March is question month in blog land. Not sure there are any more questions for me to answer...but if you ask, I will answer....
Have a good week all...
hugs abby
Sunday, February 21, 2016
Fun Friday....Master and His Helping Hand..
After my naked kneeling and Master's reminding me that all of me is His, HE is covering my eyes and then my ears, 'closing' out the world around us...so that it is time for 'just U/us'...to be U/us. When i am totally relaxed i am invited over His lap. After a delicious hand warm-up, i feel the wood of the back of the brush. It is a small brush, and Master spreads the spanks around, but it does not take long before i start squirming....Master says it is a small brush, i look up and say...it is not the size of the brush, it is the force behind it....Master decides to use the bristle side of the brush. He is 'brushing' me all over with short strokes, and an occasional longer stoke....my back, my bottom, my legs, my thighs, my pussy....I go from being totally relaxed to panting and squirming...it all feels so good...
Master notices that i am....getting 'hot and bothered'...and decides we need to switch to the crop. He tells me to get up..UGH...and lean over, legs spread wide apart. His first target is my pussy, with quick, light spanks, until He can hear me groaning. He moves to my bottom, spanking all over, increasing the intensity, until i am almost lost in the sensation. Master asks if i had sucked His cock yet this week...(I am hoping that was a rhetorical question...and He would have remembered if i had)....I say no...He decides that needs to be corrected. I kneel...and make sure that Master will remember that i have indeed sucked His cock on this day.....
Master then has me over His lap, and is spanking again with the brush...but now, my bottom is very well warmed....and i almost in that zone, where i just want more. Master is telling me i have permission and encouraging me to cum.....and i am on the edge....but asking for a little help....Master takes His time but finally helps me to the explosions point...until i just collapse, spent.
.........A short anecdote about earlier last week...I was at Master's and looking for something in my purse. I could not find it, and just decided to empty the purse out. (I do not carry a large purse..more of a medium one, cause i tend to fill it to capacity.) Master is watching and shaking His head, i pull out something that grabs His attention. He picks it up and asks what it is...it is a box of mint tootsie roll drops...individual drops of hard mind candy with a soft chocolate center....It is opened, I see his look and quickly say, it was in my Christmas stocking , from the kids, and i put it in my purse, so that when i need to clear my throat or need to 'wet my whistle' i can have one. He is listening and...smirking. I continue, i've had them since Christmas and still have 1/2 the box left. He laughs...but then says...since Christmas, 1/2 the box gone, and i have never seen them listed in a food report. Oh.......I agree , i just never considered them ....food. But i will remedy that....He says...I will be looking for them.
.....That, my friends, is the blessing/curse, of having a man who notices every thing......
Have a good week...
hugs abby
Wednesday, February 17, 2016
Needing a Wednesday warm-up....
We all knew it was too good to be true....Mother Nature has been so good to us this year. Higher than normal temperatures, only a couple days where shoveling has been required....my kind of winter!
So, in one day yesterday, we had 18 inches of snow. It started snowing around 3 in the morning...so the reporters said...i was still snuggly warm in bed. There were a few inches when i got up...but by mid morning, the snow was coming down in large flakes, looking like a solid blanket of snow just falling from the sky. And of course, the wind increased, the cold, and it jut did not stop til around six that evening. Roads were closed, many were stranded in their cars, and the snow just kept piling up. Yep, Mother Nature did not want us to think she was not in charge.....if only she had a Master...and could get spanked....
I text Master His good morning message, and He replies....you should have a warm bottom all week this week....it is freezing out side. He knew my bottom was still tender on Tuesday, from Monday's maintenance. That reminder was no longer there this morning, so Master decided a warm-up was in order...and I agreed.
After my naked kneeling time, i was invited over His lap. We are chatting, and He asks if i am expecting a hand warm-up. Always! is my answer....Master does amend that to..unless there is a Punishment due...and yes...but luckily, one of those has not been on the agenda for a long time...and i do hope i have not just jinxed myself. After a lovely hand warm-up, Master tells me He has chosen a paddle that is lighter than the maintenance one...sounds really good to me.
Master starts in, and considering it is Master and there is a paddle in His hand, they are on the lighter side. After, the first set, there is more rubbing, the next set is a little harder, and i am squirming a bit. Master reminds me that He does not 'play' spank...His spankings all 'count'....they are meant to be felt...and trust me...they are. After 2 more sets, it is time for us to warm each other.....and if there had been snow in the room, it would not stand a chance!
I expect to wake up in the morning, to a still tender bottom and a smile....and then the next day...Fun Friday....in spite of Mother Nature, i will have been kept warm all week.
hugs abby
So, in one day yesterday, we had 18 inches of snow. It started snowing around 3 in the morning...so the reporters said...i was still snuggly warm in bed. There were a few inches when i got up...but by mid morning, the snow was coming down in large flakes, looking like a solid blanket of snow just falling from the sky. And of course, the wind increased, the cold, and it jut did not stop til around six that evening. Roads were closed, many were stranded in their cars, and the snow just kept piling up. Yep, Mother Nature did not want us to think she was not in charge.....if only she had a Master...and could get spanked....
I text Master His good morning message, and He replies....you should have a warm bottom all week this week....it is freezing out side. He knew my bottom was still tender on Tuesday, from Monday's maintenance. That reminder was no longer there this morning, so Master decided a warm-up was in order...and I agreed.
After my naked kneeling time, i was invited over His lap. We are chatting, and He asks if i am expecting a hand warm-up. Always! is my answer....Master does amend that to..unless there is a Punishment due...and yes...but luckily, one of those has not been on the agenda for a long time...and i do hope i have not just jinxed myself. After a lovely hand warm-up, Master tells me He has chosen a paddle that is lighter than the maintenance one...sounds really good to me.
Master starts in, and considering it is Master and there is a paddle in His hand, they are on the lighter side. After, the first set, there is more rubbing, the next set is a little harder, and i am squirming a bit. Master reminds me that He does not 'play' spank...His spankings all 'count'....they are meant to be felt...and trust me...they are. After 2 more sets, it is time for us to warm each other.....and if there had been snow in the room, it would not stand a chance!
I expect to wake up in the morning, to a still tender bottom and a smile....and then the next day...Fun Friday....in spite of Mother Nature, i will have been kept warm all week.
hugs abby
Saturday, February 13, 2016
Leathery Valentine's Celebration
Master and i had our 'just us' valentine's celebration a little early and of course it was a no calorie one! I walk into the room to see 4 leather 'toys' lined up. Seeing me grin, Master says...I guess I chose the right ones. He did, 4 of my favorite items from His toy bag. He tells me i can put them in the order i would like them to be used. I place the beaver tail first...it is perfect for a warm-up. Then i decide on the smaller tawse like strap...then the large leather strop, on a well warmed bottom it is wonderful, and finally, of course....the large flogger. Master says He had guessed correctly.
After my kneeling time, i am over His lap, for a hand warm-up. We start off chatting, about plans, and life in general, until i just totally relax into the spanking. Master chuckles and says...looks like you are ready....don't want you sleeping...as if!
I go get the beaver tail, Master says each section will be 100, with stops after 25 for some rubbing. The beaver tail feels like a longer warm-up.....and with the stops and the rubbing i am totally mellow by the time I hear Master tell me to get the double strap. He tells me to get up and lean over the back of the sofa. This set has a lot more sting to it....but during the stops i start to get an idea. By the last 25 there is some ouching and wriggling....Master tells me when this set is done, we will take a break...and i can concentrate on the taste, scent and feel of His cock in my mouth.
Master finishes and i ask if i can make a request. He is a little surprised but says, of course. I ask if before we continue would He get His whip and give me a set with His whip. He is surprised, but grinning...I have never asked for Him to use His whip...but i do know He loves it. Master tells me to go stand hanging on the the mantel...as He gets the whip. They sting, but they are not the hardest, i am very happy to get to 25, and some rubbing. After 50 Master asks if i expected Him to go easy on me since i requested the whip, i say no, this is for His pleasure. Master gets my large purple toy out of my bag, and tells me to suck on it, to give me something else to think about while He finishes the last 2 sets. It does occupy my mind on something besides the pain.
When the whipping is done, i trade in my purple toy for the real thing...much nicer smelling, feeling and tasting!
Next is the large strop...I am so well warmed up, that these are all just right. I am leaning over the sofa, and just enjoying and floating. When we get to 100, Master helps me up and tells me we still have the flogger to go...I tell Him He almost lost me to sub space...He tells me to get the flogger that will be ticket there.
As wonderful as the strop was, the large flogger always works magic....Master alternates between flogging me hard and swishing the leather strips over my body. It is indeed my ticket to sub space. Master helps me over to the sofa, over His lap as i make my way back....Master is rubbing and managing to both relax and excite me at the same time. And of course...since it is a Valentine celebration..we end with some explosive loving....
hugs abby
After my kneeling time, i am over His lap, for a hand warm-up. We start off chatting, about plans, and life in general, until i just totally relax into the spanking. Master chuckles and says...looks like you are ready....don't want you sleeping...as if!
I go get the beaver tail, Master says each section will be 100, with stops after 25 for some rubbing. The beaver tail feels like a longer warm-up.....and with the stops and the rubbing i am totally mellow by the time I hear Master tell me to get the double strap. He tells me to get up and lean over the back of the sofa. This set has a lot more sting to it....but during the stops i start to get an idea. By the last 25 there is some ouching and wriggling....Master tells me when this set is done, we will take a break...and i can concentrate on the taste, scent and feel of His cock in my mouth.
Master finishes and i ask if i can make a request. He is a little surprised but says, of course. I ask if before we continue would He get His whip and give me a set with His whip. He is surprised, but grinning...I have never asked for Him to use His whip...but i do know He loves it. Master tells me to go stand hanging on the the mantel...as He gets the whip. They sting, but they are not the hardest, i am very happy to get to 25, and some rubbing. After 50 Master asks if i expected Him to go easy on me since i requested the whip, i say no, this is for His pleasure. Master gets my large purple toy out of my bag, and tells me to suck on it, to give me something else to think about while He finishes the last 2 sets. It does occupy my mind on something besides the pain.
When the whipping is done, i trade in my purple toy for the real thing...much nicer smelling, feeling and tasting!
Next is the large strop...I am so well warmed up, that these are all just right. I am leaning over the sofa, and just enjoying and floating. When we get to 100, Master helps me up and tells me we still have the flogger to go...I tell Him He almost lost me to sub space...He tells me to get the flogger that will be ticket there.
As wonderful as the strop was, the large flogger always works magic....Master alternates between flogging me hard and swishing the leather strips over my body. It is indeed my ticket to sub space. Master helps me over to the sofa, over His lap as i make my way back....Master is rubbing and managing to both relax and excite me at the same time. And of course...since it is a Valentine celebration..we end with some explosive loving....
hugs abby
Wednesday, February 10, 2016
Ella's meme...since it is snowing...
Thank you ella for the meme.
1. You have to leave your house because of a disaster. All the people and pets you love are safe. If you could choose just one item to carry out, what would it be?
My diaries...I consider all of them 1 item. I have been keeping them on and off since high school.
2. Tell us about a book or series of books you loved as a child.
The Cherrie Ames R.N. series. I wanted to be a nurse and then realized it was all about science and math...
3. Name one item of clothing that you love for your spouse to wear.
Master's furry chest. No shoes, jeans, and no shirt...ahhh:)
4. Is there a lullaby your mom or dad sang to you that you also sang to your child?
I don't recall my parents singing to me. But my dad would sing "Tiny Bubble" to the grands and great-grands as he rocked away.
5. Tell about the fanciest restaurant at which you have ever dined.
Most recent was last year..Daughters and dil treated me to a night in NYC. We went to a restaurant, don't recall the name. It was run by chef Batali of the Food Network. And...Sally Fields was at the table next to us!
6. Tell us about any phobias you have. What else are you scared of?
Snakes and roller coasters...going high up and dropping..UGH!
7. Is there something old from a family member that you treasure?
My mom's engagement ring. And a picture...of my mom holding me, looks like she was still in the hospital, she is holding me close to her face looking at me as if she were seeing a miracle. My daughter had it framed for me....that says...love you more.
8. If there is reading material in your bathroom, what magazines or books could be found?
Crossword puzzle book in both bathrooms, in the car, next to my lounge chair...yes i am addicted.
9. Tell us about your dearest childhood friend.
There was a group of 5 of us...Diane, Paula, Sue and Elaine. Two of us are still in touch...oh the memories.
10. Is there a household task that belongs to your husband?
Master takes care of His place...sort of....and i take care of mine.
11. Have you ever smoked pot? How old were you the first time? Do you still enjoy?
Only as the fumes from all the concerts.
12. If it is cold, what do you wear to bed?
I have a wonderful collection of fluffy, warm, flannel PJ's.
Or....Master keeps me warm.
13. How old were you when you lost your virginity? Share any story with which you are comfortable.
I was 22...senior in college....it was not all that memorable.
14. Think of something you did as a kid about which you were glad your parents never found out. If you were a perfect child, you may just respond with "Perfect", but the rest of us will hate you for it.
Remember those 4 friend in number 9.....there were a few...one of them was a beautiful, hot day in June...much too nice to spend in school...but perfect for the beach. Only one of the astute nuns remarked the next day....that we had good coloring for having been ill the day before.
15. Boob Question -
Think Goldilocks and the 3 Bears.
Do you think your boobs are:
a.) Too big
b.) Too small
c.) Just right
d.) "All of the above" is not a valid answer.
Master says c...and He is always right...so c.
hugs abby
1. You have to leave your house because of a disaster. All the people and pets you love are safe. If you could choose just one item to carry out, what would it be?
My diaries...I consider all of them 1 item. I have been keeping them on and off since high school.
2. Tell us about a book or series of books you loved as a child.
The Cherrie Ames R.N. series. I wanted to be a nurse and then realized it was all about science and math...
3. Name one item of clothing that you love for your spouse to wear.
Master's furry chest. No shoes, jeans, and no shirt...ahhh:)
4. Is there a lullaby your mom or dad sang to you that you also sang to your child?
I don't recall my parents singing to me. But my dad would sing "Tiny Bubble" to the grands and great-grands as he rocked away.
5. Tell about the fanciest restaurant at which you have ever dined.
Most recent was last year..Daughters and dil treated me to a night in NYC. We went to a restaurant, don't recall the name. It was run by chef Batali of the Food Network. And...Sally Fields was at the table next to us!
6. Tell us about any phobias you have. What else are you scared of?
Snakes and roller coasters...going high up and dropping..UGH!
7. Is there something old from a family member that you treasure?
My mom's engagement ring. And a picture...of my mom holding me, looks like she was still in the hospital, she is holding me close to her face looking at me as if she were seeing a miracle. My daughter had it framed for me....that says...love you more.
8. If there is reading material in your bathroom, what magazines or books could be found?
Crossword puzzle book in both bathrooms, in the car, next to my lounge chair...yes i am addicted.
9. Tell us about your dearest childhood friend.
There was a group of 5 of us...Diane, Paula, Sue and Elaine. Two of us are still in touch...oh the memories.
10. Is there a household task that belongs to your husband?
Master takes care of His place...sort of....and i take care of mine.
11. Have you ever smoked pot? How old were you the first time? Do you still enjoy?
Only as the fumes from all the concerts.
12. If it is cold, what do you wear to bed?
I have a wonderful collection of fluffy, warm, flannel PJ's.
Or....Master keeps me warm.
I was 22...senior in college....it was not all that memorable.
14. Think of something you did as a kid about which you were glad your parents never found out. If you were a perfect child, you may just respond with "Perfect", but the rest of us will hate you for it.
Remember those 4 friend in number 9.....there were a few...one of them was a beautiful, hot day in June...much too nice to spend in school...but perfect for the beach. Only one of the astute nuns remarked the next day....that we had good coloring for having been ill the day before.
15. Boob Question -
Think Goldilocks and the 3 Bears.
Do you think your boobs are:
a.) Too big
b.) Too small
c.) Just right
d.) "All of the above" is not a valid answer.
Master says c...and He is always right...so c.
hugs abby
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