****I am working on a post on my thoughts on your comments from my last entry....It might be in 2 parts....hoping to get part 1 done by the weekend.
I am out of town for a couple weeks...so my blogging will be the start of a look back to where Master and i have been.
Spanking...it was a word i thought about often..too often..tried to visualize..tried to banish from my head...finally i decided to find out more..so i typed the word into a search engine..Oh My! Reading about spanking..only made me want it more...Why could i not get it out of my head??
From thinking i progressed to searching on-line...and finally to emailing a few online friends..mostly dominants...
That is how Master and i started..on line, sending emails, phone calls..and finally agreeing to meet. Even as i agreed i wasn't sure i could do it..go and meet Him...yes He had been understanding, and funny, and interesting, and the first time i heard His voice, i was enthralled, just by the sound of it (still am!). But still...me..go and meet with someone that i had only met on-line???
We were meeting late one afternoon, He gave me the choice for beer or coffee, without really thinking about it...i chose beer. He laughed and said good choice. I arrived at the place a few minutes early, and sat in the parking lot for 15 minutes, trying to decide if i could actually go in and meet Him. I finally talked myself into the free beer.
We talked for close to an hour, i think. Actually He did most of the talking, and i remember thinking...yikes..He uses the work spank in every other sentence! The sound or tone of His voice, His sense of humor, and His understanding of how i was feeling, won me over.
The man i now call Master, gave me my first spanking...using only His hand and over clothing, but it was a spanking...and i was thrilled! I could not believe i had actually been spanked...worse i had no one to jump up and down with and share my news.
I went home thinking finally! finally!..now i can forget all about this spanking business, and move on..i really did think that. Of course, a couple days later, i was wondering if i could get a second spanking on how soon could it happen...a spanko had been born!
At the time in my life when i thought i would be "settling in" and looking back on my best years, i was starting a brand new journey,,,one that i still wonder at, one that would take me places i had only imagined, and a few places i never could have imagined!
Stay cool everyone...til next time
abby
Wednesday, May 30, 2018
Wednesday, May 23, 2018
100 Spank Challenge.....and a question from Master....
Amy gave me another wonderful idea for a post....thanks my friend...so please give her the credit...(Not my fault Baker:)...
Seems that many of you had not had the fun of experiencing 100 spanks for a spanking. Now, if you have been reading here for more than a month you all know...for me that is barely a warm-up. But I think you all are missing out on something. I am challenging all who read here to experience 100 spanks for a session. Now, there are no other rules, so have fun with it...you can use just a hand, or just a 'toy' of your choice...or 5 different toys...or try something totally new. Position is your....or the spanker's choice. And as an extra bonus...you get to have something to blog about and let us all know about it! I will post a 100 spank "honor roll", in a couple of weeks, to give you all time to complete the challenge...(If you already have been spanked 100 times or more...please join in...just do it again , say it is for the challenge and post)!
Another, sort of related, topic. Yesterday was maintenance day for us. Now, I would like you all to think that, by now, I kneel and get re-claimed, go over his knee and quietly submit to the spanking....and sometimes that happens. Yesterday was not such a day....and for no obvious reason. We chatted, I knelt for Him and then was over His lap. There was a -too quick to my way of thinking- warm-up and Master started in...100 with the maintenance paddle. They really hurt, right from the beginning, and I just could not adjust. I started complaining loudly...he was spanking harder than he usually did, it was too hard, ...you get the picture. After 25 he did stop for some rubbing and we chatted about why we do this, about how it has helped us in a number of ways, and it happens every week. Second set of 25 and I am no calmer and just as loud. Half way though M tells me to kneel for him so we can chat and he can calm me. Time for third set, and altho I still think they are harder than usual, I am not quite as vocal...more rubbing and then last set, which is usually the hardest, but felt about the same. I did make some remark about finally finished....that was hard.
So we talked, about maintenance, about why we have it, about the positives....we are both committed to it, so there is at least one spanking a week...and often we end with a fun aspect, I have not had a punishment spanking (basement visit) in a long time since we started, it is a way for us to re-connect in 'our special way'. Master then suggested that maybe once month maintenance should be more in the form of a punishment spanking...to remind me. I would be in the basement, I would be bent over a chair, and that *****big paddle would be used for 100. Needless to say, I am not in favor. So Master suggested we put it to a vote, let all of you decide. I quickly agreed (with a big grin). Master noticed the grin and cautioned me not to be so sure of the results, there might be some bloggers who would be will to 'throw me under the bus so they could read about it'...yes his words. I did not respond, but I am not all that worried. So...I am asking anyone who feels incline to vote...once a month maintenance should be more of a punishment type spanking, yes or no....we will both agree to the outcome....no grudges held.
I am off early tomorrow morning...I want to surprise the youngest grand by showing up at her Spring Concert at school. I have surprised the three oldest in such a way, and now it is her turn. The program starts at 1:30 and I want a front row seat so she can see me, so I need to get going early. Have a wonderful weekend all.....I will be looking for your votes on Master's suggestion when I return.
hugs abby
Seems that many of you had not had the fun of experiencing 100 spanks for a spanking. Now, if you have been reading here for more than a month you all know...for me that is barely a warm-up. But I think you all are missing out on something. I am challenging all who read here to experience 100 spanks for a session. Now, there are no other rules, so have fun with it...you can use just a hand, or just a 'toy' of your choice...or 5 different toys...or try something totally new. Position is your....or the spanker's choice. And as an extra bonus...you get to have something to blog about and let us all know about it! I will post a 100 spank "honor roll", in a couple of weeks, to give you all time to complete the challenge...(If you already have been spanked 100 times or more...please join in...just do it again , say it is for the challenge and post)!
Another, sort of related, topic. Yesterday was maintenance day for us. Now, I would like you all to think that, by now, I kneel and get re-claimed, go over his knee and quietly submit to the spanking....and sometimes that happens. Yesterday was not such a day....and for no obvious reason. We chatted, I knelt for Him and then was over His lap. There was a -too quick to my way of thinking- warm-up and Master started in...100 with the maintenance paddle. They really hurt, right from the beginning, and I just could not adjust. I started complaining loudly...he was spanking harder than he usually did, it was too hard, ...you get the picture. After 25 he did stop for some rubbing and we chatted about why we do this, about how it has helped us in a number of ways, and it happens every week. Second set of 25 and I am no calmer and just as loud. Half way though M tells me to kneel for him so we can chat and he can calm me. Time for third set, and altho I still think they are harder than usual, I am not quite as vocal...more rubbing and then last set, which is usually the hardest, but felt about the same. I did make some remark about finally finished....that was hard.
So we talked, about maintenance, about why we have it, about the positives....we are both committed to it, so there is at least one spanking a week...and often we end with a fun aspect, I have not had a punishment spanking (basement visit) in a long time since we started, it is a way for us to re-connect in 'our special way'. Master then suggested that maybe once month maintenance should be more in the form of a punishment spanking...to remind me. I would be in the basement, I would be bent over a chair, and that *****big paddle would be used for 100. Needless to say, I am not in favor. So Master suggested we put it to a vote, let all of you decide. I quickly agreed (with a big grin). Master noticed the grin and cautioned me not to be so sure of the results, there might be some bloggers who would be will to 'throw me under the bus so they could read about it'...yes his words. I did not respond, but I am not all that worried. So...I am asking anyone who feels incline to vote...once a month maintenance should be more of a punishment type spanking, yes or no....we will both agree to the outcome....no grudges held.
I am off early tomorrow morning...I want to surprise the youngest grand by showing up at her Spring Concert at school. I have surprised the three oldest in such a way, and now it is her turn. The program starts at 1:30 and I want a front row seat so she can see me, so I need to get going early. Have a wonderful weekend all.....I will be looking for your votes on Master's suggestion when I return.
hugs abby
Monday, May 21, 2018
Thanks to Amy..."How Does He"?
"Borrowing" this from Amy...thanks my friend for a great idea for a post.
1. How does he let you know a spanking is coming?
Sooo many ways. M has been spanking me for...18 years...does not seem possible, but I went back and checked...yes we were babes when we started....LOL. At first spankings were..once in a while when we could both fit it in. Finally we got smart and decided since we were both so busy...we should schedule a once a week spanking. Hence Maintenance Monday's...which still don't always work out. We also added Fun Friday's...which sometimes work out. Other times he gives me 'the look' and the crook of a finger....or simply invites me over his lap. There are the times, I walk into a room to see 'toys' all laid out...
2. How does he choose an implement?
For maintenance it is always a hand warm-up followed by 100 with the maintenance paddle...a smaller wooden paddle, medium weight. Other times, he declares an all leather day (not often enough :), or if we have a base ball (or other wager) going..whoever wins gets to decide. If we are roll playing he will choose something appropriate for that, other times, he just chooses what he wants or tells me to get whatever leather or wooden implement I want from the bag.
3. Does he lecture?
Usually only for punishment spankings (sometimes for roll playing, if it is appropriate). I assure you...I was a junior high teacher, so I could good give a good scolding...M surpasses my best lecture by far. I swear he does not even breathe, just spanks, talks very loudly, occasionally has me answer a question, repeat and repeat...those have become rare....and no, I don't miss them.
4. How does he position you?
We almost always start with me over his lap. It is my favorite position. From there it depends on what he is using. Often for the flogger or cane, I am leaning up against a fire place mantle, or leaning over a piece of furniture, often with pillows for support. At times, he just has me stand in a certain position...like with my hands behind me head. Fairly often, we start over his lap...and end with 'a more fun activity' in various positions...:))))))
5. How does he spank me?
Hmmm...however he wants. Except for maintenance it varies. For maintenance, we start out with my naked kneeling, where he touches pinches, rubs, every part of me, reminding me that I am all his. At times he might ask me a question or two...just to keep me in the moment. The I am told to get over his lap, and after a hand warm-up, the maintenance paddle is use...100....and if we have missed a week....200. He almost always does sets of 25, before he stops for some rubbing, and sometimes to ask me....why do we do maintenance ....half way through he tell me to kneel and and take a break while I thank him for my maintenance...and again at the end of maintenance.
6 .How does he take care of you afterwards?
There is always aftercare. He is good with words, he will tell me how proud he is of me, how thankful for the gift of my submission that I offer to him, etc....He is constantly touching me, all over, until my breathing is normal, and he asks if I am ready to get up. (Usually my getting up, is to move into a position where we can both enjoy each other's bodies:)! After a punishment no orgasms or permissions are given...he has a few times, brought me to the edge, and denied permission after a punishment to make a point.
7. How often does he spank you?
Ideally...at least twice a week...It is why we started scheduling maintenance, and yes even play spankings. It is wayyy too easy to let the rest of life get in the way, with family, with work, with friends, etc, etc.
We waited a long time to find each other, are so grateful that we did, we try to celebrate this special connection we have. We have had a few weeks where we decided it would be a week of spankings, one every day. There have been long lapses between spankings, for health reasons, because distant family needed help.....but we know, in the 'end' my bottom and his hand will re-connect....
Thanks again Amy....
hugs abby
1. How does he let you know a spanking is coming?
Sooo many ways. M has been spanking me for...18 years...does not seem possible, but I went back and checked...yes we were babes when we started....LOL. At first spankings were..once in a while when we could both fit it in. Finally we got smart and decided since we were both so busy...we should schedule a once a week spanking. Hence Maintenance Monday's...which still don't always work out. We also added Fun Friday's...which sometimes work out. Other times he gives me 'the look' and the crook of a finger....or simply invites me over his lap. There are the times, I walk into a room to see 'toys' all laid out...
2. How does he choose an implement?
For maintenance it is always a hand warm-up followed by 100 with the maintenance paddle...a smaller wooden paddle, medium weight. Other times, he declares an all leather day (not often enough :), or if we have a base ball (or other wager) going..whoever wins gets to decide. If we are roll playing he will choose something appropriate for that, other times, he just chooses what he wants or tells me to get whatever leather or wooden implement I want from the bag.
3. Does he lecture?
Usually only for punishment spankings (sometimes for roll playing, if it is appropriate). I assure you...I was a junior high teacher, so I could good give a good scolding...M surpasses my best lecture by far. I swear he does not even breathe, just spanks, talks very loudly, occasionally has me answer a question, repeat and repeat...those have become rare....and no, I don't miss them.
4. How does he position you?
We almost always start with me over his lap. It is my favorite position. From there it depends on what he is using. Often for the flogger or cane, I am leaning up against a fire place mantle, or leaning over a piece of furniture, often with pillows for support. At times, he just has me stand in a certain position...like with my hands behind me head. Fairly often, we start over his lap...and end with 'a more fun activity' in various positions...:))))))
5. How does he spank me?
Hmmm...however he wants. Except for maintenance it varies. For maintenance, we start out with my naked kneeling, where he touches pinches, rubs, every part of me, reminding me that I am all his. At times he might ask me a question or two...just to keep me in the moment. The I am told to get over his lap, and after a hand warm-up, the maintenance paddle is use...100....and if we have missed a week....200. He almost always does sets of 25, before he stops for some rubbing, and sometimes to ask me....why do we do maintenance ....half way through he tell me to kneel and and take a break while I thank him for my maintenance...and again at the end of maintenance.
6 .How does he take care of you afterwards?
There is always aftercare. He is good with words, he will tell me how proud he is of me, how thankful for the gift of my submission that I offer to him, etc....He is constantly touching me, all over, until my breathing is normal, and he asks if I am ready to get up. (Usually my getting up, is to move into a position where we can both enjoy each other's bodies:)! After a punishment no orgasms or permissions are given...he has a few times, brought me to the edge, and denied permission after a punishment to make a point.
7. How often does he spank you?
Ideally...at least twice a week...It is why we started scheduling maintenance, and yes even play spankings. It is wayyy too easy to let the rest of life get in the way, with family, with work, with friends, etc, etc.
We waited a long time to find each other, are so grateful that we did, we try to celebrate this special connection we have. We have had a few weeks where we decided it would be a week of spankings, one every day. There have been long lapses between spankings, for health reasons, because distant family needed help.....but we know, in the 'end' my bottom and his hand will re-connect....
Thanks again Amy....
hugs abby
Friday, May 18, 2018
F/F report...etc....etc..
I am going to start with the F/F report, and then add some catch up items....
Walking....I have actually stepped up on the walking, a bit. Spring has finally arrived...that wonderful not too hot, not too cold weather, the makes me want to be outside. I found a new route...and it is longer by about 15 minutes...and a couple of days, I walked twice..once the longer route, then the shorter one I had been doing...
Sitting binges...Doing well here....sitting less in general it seems.
De-cluttering...I did something quite different....the bedroom is looking great...bureau tops are neat , shelves look organized...but I have 3 boxes of jewelry. Now, some of it are things I love and treasure...but a lot of it is....the holiday stuff I would wear to school (I have pins, earrings, necklaces for every holiday...and could wear a different item on every day of the week all of December...also lots of jewelry with a frog theme...and some things, that I am not sure how or why I have them. So, I laid it all out on the bed...and really, I wear minimal jewelry. So, I had 3 smallish velvet pouches (not sure why or how I have these, but there were with the jewelry) and made a pouch of jewels for each of the grand- daughters. Some of it the 'costume' jewels...but each also got some of the nicer ones. I tried to match them to their personalities. I figured I will add a note to each one...and voila!!...I have started my Christmas shopping.
Weight....I gained 1/2 a pound. Each set of grands made me some special goodies for Mother's day...chocolate chip cookies from one, and orange chocolate short breads from the other set. I have been eating one..or two..a day from each...but the rest are being frozen as I type. Also my daughter made chocolate lava cake for dessert on Mother's day...Oh my..enough said.
Now for the etc's....
We had maintenance Wednesday this past week..After my kneeling time and a hand warm-up it was paddling time. Four sets of 25 with that darn maintenance paddle.....I would love to 'lose' it....but am wary of what the replacement would be. Master did take breaks after each set of 25, and rubbed my bottom nicely.....I am not sure if he spanks harder with each set, or my bottom gets more tender...He says it is the latter...I think it is a combination. When he was done, he said I could pick out anything I wanted out of toy bag. I looked at him and said...anything??...with no consequences....Hmmm, so not like him....so I rummaged around the bag for a bit and came up with the smallish, oval, beaver tail paddle...I love it. Master chuckled and said I would hardly feel it after maintenance...but I said, I was going for some other sensation besides a sore bottom. He chuckled again, and said no problem. And soon, that paddle did just what I intended...I was panting, and wet, and badly in need of a permission or more.....
On a totally separate topic, life has been busy, which is good and I am not complaining. I had pictured retirement as having lots of time to do just what I wanted, or to do a lot of nothing....I am not good at a lot of nothing. I love that my days are no longer spent, trying to convince 6/7/8 graders the importance of good grammar and writing skills...altho I loved the literature part of the curriculum. Also the fact that I no longer have the urge to throw my alarm clock every morning, since most of the time I no longer need one:)! But I have been busy...a good busy, but busy. Besides keeping up with friends and family here...I was looking back at the calendar this year, and realized I was gone at least one week, sometimes two out of every month so far....and June, July, August and Sept....are already booked. I was thinking, well, fall and things will slow down...Oct., Nov., and Dec., were wide open.
Last week my son called, and asked if I had plans for October yet...at least he has learned to plan early. I said no, the calendar is wide open...so he asked if I could stay with the girls for 7/10 days...He and his wife are both turning 40 and want to celebrate with a trip...I asked where, and he said they were thinking of Iceland....that was a surprise. So I said sure, let me know when you have exact dates...On Friday morning, I was talking to the oldest grand before she went off to school, when my daughter took the phone and said to me...Fred and I had dinner with some friends we had not seen in a while, and are talking about a vacation with them, probably some time next October, figured it was long enough away you would be free. I laughed and said...call your bother, be sure your dates don't overlap, and I would like a long weekend home before the two 'gigs'. Retirement...not what I imagined, but is some ways, much better.....
hugs to all of you...
abby
Walking....I have actually stepped up on the walking, a bit. Spring has finally arrived...that wonderful not too hot, not too cold weather, the makes me want to be outside. I found a new route...and it is longer by about 15 minutes...and a couple of days, I walked twice..once the longer route, then the shorter one I had been doing...
Sitting binges...Doing well here....sitting less in general it seems.
De-cluttering...I did something quite different....the bedroom is looking great...bureau tops are neat , shelves look organized...but I have 3 boxes of jewelry. Now, some of it are things I love and treasure...but a lot of it is....the holiday stuff I would wear to school (I have pins, earrings, necklaces for every holiday...and could wear a different item on every day of the week all of December...also lots of jewelry with a frog theme...and some things, that I am not sure how or why I have them. So, I laid it all out on the bed...and really, I wear minimal jewelry. So, I had 3 smallish velvet pouches (not sure why or how I have these, but there were with the jewelry) and made a pouch of jewels for each of the grand- daughters. Some of it the 'costume' jewels...but each also got some of the nicer ones. I tried to match them to their personalities. I figured I will add a note to each one...and voila!!...I have started my Christmas shopping.
Weight....I gained 1/2 a pound. Each set of grands made me some special goodies for Mother's day...chocolate chip cookies from one, and orange chocolate short breads from the other set. I have been eating one..or two..a day from each...but the rest are being frozen as I type. Also my daughter made chocolate lava cake for dessert on Mother's day...Oh my..enough said.
Now for the etc's....
We had maintenance Wednesday this past week..After my kneeling time and a hand warm-up it was paddling time. Four sets of 25 with that darn maintenance paddle.....I would love to 'lose' it....but am wary of what the replacement would be. Master did take breaks after each set of 25, and rubbed my bottom nicely.....I am not sure if he spanks harder with each set, or my bottom gets more tender...He says it is the latter...I think it is a combination. When he was done, he said I could pick out anything I wanted out of toy bag. I looked at him and said...anything??...with no consequences....Hmmm, so not like him....so I rummaged around the bag for a bit and came up with the smallish, oval, beaver tail paddle...I love it. Master chuckled and said I would hardly feel it after maintenance...but I said, I was going for some other sensation besides a sore bottom. He chuckled again, and said no problem. And soon, that paddle did just what I intended...I was panting, and wet, and badly in need of a permission or more.....
On a totally separate topic, life has been busy, which is good and I am not complaining. I had pictured retirement as having lots of time to do just what I wanted, or to do a lot of nothing....I am not good at a lot of nothing. I love that my days are no longer spent, trying to convince 6/7/8 graders the importance of good grammar and writing skills...altho I loved the literature part of the curriculum. Also the fact that I no longer have the urge to throw my alarm clock every morning, since most of the time I no longer need one:)! But I have been busy...a good busy, but busy. Besides keeping up with friends and family here...I was looking back at the calendar this year, and realized I was gone at least one week, sometimes two out of every month so far....and June, July, August and Sept....are already booked. I was thinking, well, fall and things will slow down...Oct., Nov., and Dec., were wide open.
Last week my son called, and asked if I had plans for October yet...at least he has learned to plan early. I said no, the calendar is wide open...so he asked if I could stay with the girls for 7/10 days...He and his wife are both turning 40 and want to celebrate with a trip...I asked where, and he said they were thinking of Iceland....that was a surprise. So I said sure, let me know when you have exact dates...On Friday morning, I was talking to the oldest grand before she went off to school, when my daughter took the phone and said to me...Fred and I had dinner with some friends we had not seen in a while, and are talking about a vacation with them, probably some time next October, figured it was long enough away you would be free. I laughed and said...call your bother, be sure your dates don't overlap, and I would like a long weekend home before the two 'gigs'. Retirement...not what I imagined, but is some ways, much better.....
hugs to all of you...
abby
Friday, May 11, 2018
An Open Letter to the Red Sox....
Dear Red Sox team,
Hello, I am abby. I have been a fan...for as long as I can remember. I would listen to your games on the radio when I was a teenager....cheering for Yaz....my favorite player of all time. I remember my first time at Fenway, seeing the team in person, the green monster (that wall in the back field), singing "Take Me Out to the Ball Game, it was all I had hoped for. I have been to a few games over the years, and last year my son took me to a Yanks/Red Sox game, a bucket list item for me.
I moved from the New England area to New York after college, but my loyalties remained with my team...the Sox! I watch all the games that I can, have a Red Sox banner in my flower bed, an ornament on my frog tree at Christmas, I am all in.
Somehow I managed to find a Master who is a Yankee's fan....can you believe it? When we were getting to know each other, it was not baseball season, and by the time it was....well we were both 'smitten'....guess no one can be perfect. So we each cheer for our own team as we watch the games.
We often wager on the games...no, not money. We wager on spankings....yes you saw correctly...spankings. The terms vary, but if the Sox win I am smiling and enjoying some fun play time...if they lose, my bottom pays the price.
This last series, you...'my boys'....let me down. Those damn Yankees won the first game, 3/2...at least it was a low score. Master got to choose the 'toy', I was thinking he would choose the 'my paddleman' paddle, but he chose the acrylic one. Five runs scored for 50 spanks with that darn paddle. I was leaning over, and my bottom paid the price for the losing effort.
Second game, and you let me down again. this time the score 9/6...times 10...that is 150 with the implement of Master's choice. I was thinking...he loves his whip, and it rarely comes out to play...I was right...it came out to 'play'. Master made sure I was comfy, pillows to lean on, and He yielded his whip, on my back, my bottom, a few on my thighs, sets of 25. He nicely stopped and gave me a delicious rub down after each set, but the sting was not so nice. I was very verbal, but that never deters him. Since he can be sympathetic, He gave me a gift of stopping at 100, and taking out the large leather strop for the last 50. I do love leather, and after the whip, I was thankful for the kiss of the strop, even though, my bottom was hot and achy.
Finally, game 3 and the team did not disappoint. It was close, but 'we' won! The last part of the spanking was my choice....and Master was not at all surprised that I chose His flogger...100 all over my back and bottom, with some wonderful swishing in between sets of 25. It was dreamy...and of course led us to.......celebrating in a way that we both could enjoy.
So, the next time the Yanks and Sox play, please know that it is not only the players' batting average and the team's ranking in the standing that is at risk....it is my bottom...and as a life time loyal fan, I expect more of the flogger less of the whip, please.
thank you abby.
Hello, I am abby. I have been a fan...for as long as I can remember. I would listen to your games on the radio when I was a teenager....cheering for Yaz....my favorite player of all time. I remember my first time at Fenway, seeing the team in person, the green monster (that wall in the back field), singing "Take Me Out to the Ball Game, it was all I had hoped for. I have been to a few games over the years, and last year my son took me to a Yanks/Red Sox game, a bucket list item for me.
I moved from the New England area to New York after college, but my loyalties remained with my team...the Sox! I watch all the games that I can, have a Red Sox banner in my flower bed, an ornament on my frog tree at Christmas, I am all in.
Somehow I managed to find a Master who is a Yankee's fan....can you believe it? When we were getting to know each other, it was not baseball season, and by the time it was....well we were both 'smitten'....guess no one can be perfect. So we each cheer for our own team as we watch the games.
We often wager on the games...no, not money. We wager on spankings....yes you saw correctly...spankings. The terms vary, but if the Sox win I am smiling and enjoying some fun play time...if they lose, my bottom pays the price.
This last series, you...'my boys'....let me down. Those damn Yankees won the first game, 3/2...at least it was a low score. Master got to choose the 'toy', I was thinking he would choose the 'my paddleman' paddle, but he chose the acrylic one. Five runs scored for 50 spanks with that darn paddle. I was leaning over, and my bottom paid the price for the losing effort.
Second game, and you let me down again. this time the score 9/6...times 10...that is 150 with the implement of Master's choice. I was thinking...he loves his whip, and it rarely comes out to play...I was right...it came out to 'play'. Master made sure I was comfy, pillows to lean on, and He yielded his whip, on my back, my bottom, a few on my thighs, sets of 25. He nicely stopped and gave me a delicious rub down after each set, but the sting was not so nice. I was very verbal, but that never deters him. Since he can be sympathetic, He gave me a gift of stopping at 100, and taking out the large leather strop for the last 50. I do love leather, and after the whip, I was thankful for the kiss of the strop, even though, my bottom was hot and achy.
Finally, game 3 and the team did not disappoint. It was close, but 'we' won! The last part of the spanking was my choice....and Master was not at all surprised that I chose His flogger...100 all over my back and bottom, with some wonderful swishing in between sets of 25. It was dreamy...and of course led us to.......celebrating in a way that we both could enjoy.
So, the next time the Yanks and Sox play, please know that it is not only the players' batting average and the team's ranking in the standing that is at risk....it is my bottom...and as a life time loyal fan, I expect more of the flogger less of the whip, please.
thank you abby.
Thursday, May 10, 2018
FF catch up time....and more...
Hi all, let me re-introduce myself..I am abby...and I have missed you all, life has been keeping me very busy...some good, some not so good...life in general. I am back, and determined to get back to at least once a week blogging...I might even ask M to help me out with that..;).
My time in Boston and Maine was filled with lots of family time, and fun, and special meals, and ice cream and laughter....remembering wonderful times from the past, and making lots of new memories. I came home exhausted...and M then had to be away for a week.
I think I have missed 3 FF updates, so I am going to give a general review.
Weight loss...I returned home only 1/2 pound above where I left, and as of this week, I have loss 1 1/2...YAHOO!
Walking.....While I was away, I had some wonderful company on my walks..all or any of the grands who wanted to come along. They are a funny bunch...they would challenge me to keep with them, and make up sections where we skipped or walked in a different way...the walks were not boring! Since returning, I have also kept up with the daily walks...just in a more adult...and boring...way. (Don't want the neighbors to think I have gone completely daft).
No long sitting binges...did not have to worry about this with the grands around...dance parties, games in the back yard....etc. I have not done as well since I have been home...I blame all of you, trying to read and catch up with all of you...Master raised an eyebrow at that excuse.
De-cluttering....since being home, I have been on a mission with this one. Started when I was thinking at the beginning of this week that it had not snowed in a week, and I could change the closet back to spring/summer mode. Usually I wait until after Mother's day, since when I was a good scout leader I took my daughter's troop for a camping weekend. We had a great time...til we woke up Sunday morning to over 6 inches of snow. Bribed them with a McDonald's breakfast if they could get us all packed and ready to go in less than 20 minutes! (it worked). I started with my PJ's...I could not believe I had 8 pairs of winter PJ's..not including night gowns. My daughter walked in and cheered....and asked if I was going to also clean out the closet. I said yes..and she said great I will help...everything that is more than 1 size larger than you are wearing now is gone! I started to explain...when she said...do you want to be known as the 'frumpy grandma'...I stared at her. She continued, the over sized things made me look frumpy and the grands were getting older and clothes conscious...she then added, you are keeping them as a safety zone..in case you gain again...that is the wrong thing to think. You can keep the one size larger ones...they will be your warning that you are gaining and need to be more careful. At first I was not thrilled, but she made sense....so about an hour later, I had 2 of the very large garbage bags filled with clothing...and a closet with space for new stuff:)!
I also managed to get myself into a bit of trouble since I have been back. While M was away, I sort of 'forgot' some of my rules and did distance myself a bit. He was not happy when he returned, so this past Monday, was not only Maintenance day, it was 'reminder' day that I am always accountable. After my naked kneeling, and lots of chatting about reverting to old habits..and how that is not allowed....the maintenance paddle and my bottom became re-acquainted. It was, as always, a hard spanking, and I was loud in letting him know it hurt...no, it never deters him. After, he nicely was rubbing my bottom and we were chatting a bit about how much we missed each other and I was thinking that maybe I could encourage him to move on to another activity..when I heard him chuckle.
I was told to get up and choose a paddle for my 'reminder' spanking about staying close. I am ruffling through the toy bag, ....there are no good choices, and I hear the...you choose in 1 minute or I will choose, and add spanks since you could not choose. I quickly pick up the shamrock paddle, it is a little larger than his hand, on the thick side, but I was thinking it is one of the smaller paddles, and I could be over his lap during the spanking. He does say he is surprised at my choice, I explain the over his lap thinking...he tells me to get ready. These were hard and fast...no breaks...just spanks and scolding. I had almost forgotten what a good scolder he is...he is loud, has lots to say, and barely takes time to breathe. Finally, he is done, and we are both catching our breath....before we move on to a more pleasurable catch-up activity...where we are both left breathless.
My next post will be baseball related...sort of. Those of you who have been reading here a while, might remember that Master is a 'damn' Yankee's fan...I was born with Red Sox blood in my veins. It is one of the few ways we do not agree. We used to wager on the games, make them more interesting and change up our spanking routing at the same time. We stopped for a bit, but have decided we missed it. The teams are playing this week. So far the Yanks have won the first 2 games...last night's game was 15 runs...I was counting on low scoring games when I set the terms for the wager. So far tonight the Sox are ahead...let's hope they don't let me down...and stay tuned for a report on the debt pay-off.
Still trying to catch up with all of you, seems like I am always in catch up mode.
hugs...abby
My time in Boston and Maine was filled with lots of family time, and fun, and special meals, and ice cream and laughter....remembering wonderful times from the past, and making lots of new memories. I came home exhausted...and M then had to be away for a week.
I think I have missed 3 FF updates, so I am going to give a general review.
Weight loss...I returned home only 1/2 pound above where I left, and as of this week, I have loss 1 1/2...YAHOO!
Walking.....While I was away, I had some wonderful company on my walks..all or any of the grands who wanted to come along. They are a funny bunch...they would challenge me to keep with them, and make up sections where we skipped or walked in a different way...the walks were not boring! Since returning, I have also kept up with the daily walks...just in a more adult...and boring...way. (Don't want the neighbors to think I have gone completely daft).
No long sitting binges...did not have to worry about this with the grands around...dance parties, games in the back yard....etc. I have not done as well since I have been home...I blame all of you, trying to read and catch up with all of you...Master raised an eyebrow at that excuse.
De-cluttering....since being home, I have been on a mission with this one. Started when I was thinking at the beginning of this week that it had not snowed in a week, and I could change the closet back to spring/summer mode. Usually I wait until after Mother's day, since when I was a good scout leader I took my daughter's troop for a camping weekend. We had a great time...til we woke up Sunday morning to over 6 inches of snow. Bribed them with a McDonald's breakfast if they could get us all packed and ready to go in less than 20 minutes! (it worked). I started with my PJ's...I could not believe I had 8 pairs of winter PJ's..not including night gowns. My daughter walked in and cheered....and asked if I was going to also clean out the closet. I said yes..and she said great I will help...everything that is more than 1 size larger than you are wearing now is gone! I started to explain...when she said...do you want to be known as the 'frumpy grandma'...I stared at her. She continued, the over sized things made me look frumpy and the grands were getting older and clothes conscious...she then added, you are keeping them as a safety zone..in case you gain again...that is the wrong thing to think. You can keep the one size larger ones...they will be your warning that you are gaining and need to be more careful. At first I was not thrilled, but she made sense....so about an hour later, I had 2 of the very large garbage bags filled with clothing...and a closet with space for new stuff:)!
I also managed to get myself into a bit of trouble since I have been back. While M was away, I sort of 'forgot' some of my rules and did distance myself a bit. He was not happy when he returned, so this past Monday, was not only Maintenance day, it was 'reminder' day that I am always accountable. After my naked kneeling, and lots of chatting about reverting to old habits..and how that is not allowed....the maintenance paddle and my bottom became re-acquainted. It was, as always, a hard spanking, and I was loud in letting him know it hurt...no, it never deters him. After, he nicely was rubbing my bottom and we were chatting a bit about how much we missed each other and I was thinking that maybe I could encourage him to move on to another activity..when I heard him chuckle.
I was told to get up and choose a paddle for my 'reminder' spanking about staying close. I am ruffling through the toy bag, ....there are no good choices, and I hear the...you choose in 1 minute or I will choose, and add spanks since you could not choose. I quickly pick up the shamrock paddle, it is a little larger than his hand, on the thick side, but I was thinking it is one of the smaller paddles, and I could be over his lap during the spanking. He does say he is surprised at my choice, I explain the over his lap thinking...he tells me to get ready. These were hard and fast...no breaks...just spanks and scolding. I had almost forgotten what a good scolder he is...he is loud, has lots to say, and barely takes time to breathe. Finally, he is done, and we are both catching our breath....before we move on to a more pleasurable catch-up activity...where we are both left breathless.
My next post will be baseball related...sort of. Those of you who have been reading here a while, might remember that Master is a 'damn' Yankee's fan...I was born with Red Sox blood in my veins. It is one of the few ways we do not agree. We used to wager on the games, make them more interesting and change up our spanking routing at the same time. We stopped for a bit, but have decided we missed it. The teams are playing this week. So far the Yanks have won the first 2 games...last night's game was 15 runs...I was counting on low scoring games when I set the terms for the wager. So far tonight the Sox are ahead...let's hope they don't let me down...and stay tuned for a report on the debt pay-off.
Still trying to catch up with all of you, seems like I am always in catch up mode.
hugs...abby
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