Yes, I am actually a day early...figure that is better than the last two weeks when I was a day late. :). I am leaving very early in the morning, for my daughter's, my son is headed there also for a marathon weekend of fun! Tomorrow we are celebrating a 10th (oh my, double digits) birthday, and an all girls trip to NYC on Saturday and Easter on Sunday...returning Sunday evening.
De-cluttering. My early plan for this week was to change over my closet from winter to warmer weather clothing. I saw a long range forecast, and saw the word snow twice, and no temps above the 30's..ugh. So stayed away from the closet, and counted how many pairs of shoes I have, in a few places. Let's just say it was over 30, many of which have not been worn in a long, long time. So, I have a big box of shoes for a drop off at the Salvation Army.
Walking...did well on this on....over 50 minutes every day!! This weekend will probably put a stop to that streak, but the NYC day might make up for the lost days....that is a walking city!
No sitting binges, did OK....got some 'wriggling'..(that is what Master's tell me to do..put a wriggle in it...when I am walking), I did less sitting this week, and did do quite a few tours around the house.
Weight loss 1/2 pound...still going in the right direction. Although I am thinking that after this weekend, I will have found that 1/2 pound...and probably a little extra...
hugs abby
Thursday, March 29, 2018
Tuesday, March 27, 2018
Thoughts on an often asked question....
When I post an entry on my blog, I am pretty certain that at least one person will comment...how do you take such a hard spanking (not those exact words, but that sentiment). Don't get me wrong, I love all comments, and thank all of you who take the time to comment, but I thought it might be a good idea to expand on my one sentence response to those comments. This is going to be a look back on Master and my journey and on my thoughts, no spanking...fair warning...and you have my permission to stop reading now.
I started blogging, at Master's insistence...umm actually he issued a "you will start blogging", when his insistence was not enough. That was in 2010...and I am so happy he did. At that point Master and I had known each other for 7 years. He wanted me to be able to share my thoughts, and hopefully connect with like-minded people. He reads here, but has never been at all negative or critical about anything I have written.
M and I 'met' on line, and chatted for quite a while before we met. He had spanked 'young ladies' for a number of years, been to spanking parties...I had read about, dreamed about and fantasized about spankings for a number of years. After we had chatted for a couple of months, M decided it was time to meet. He gave me a choice of..beer or coffee...I replied, given those 2 choices I always choose beer. Master chuckled...one thing we have in common. Being the wise man he is, he decided we should meet the next day..less time for me to agonize and think myself out of it. I did sit in the parking lot and almost talk myself out of it, but something in me knew...now or never.
I walked in...and that was the best beer I ever had. We chatted non-stop, he made me laugh, we discovered we actually had quite a few things in common (besides the obvious), and yes, even then he did seem to be able to read my mind. I got my first spanking that very evening....fully clothed and with his hand...but...finally...I had been spanked.
We continued to chat and get to know each other, and about a month later had my second spanking...still fully dressed, and with his hand, but this time on my bared bottom.
Around this time, my oldest daughter got engaged, and I wanted to lose weight before the wedding. When I mentioned it to Master, he offered to be my diet coach. I was not sure what that entailed, but knew with help my chances of succeeding were much better. I lost over 50 pounds, in that year before the wedding, at times it was a painful process. I was introduced to Master's 'toy bag'....and was in shock for a week...it was heavy and had lots of items in there.
By the time of my daughter's wedding, we had learned a lot about each other, we are very close in age, we went to catholic schools, we had the same sense of humor, we felt the same strong way about family..in fact, my youngest and his son were born on the same day, same year, same hospital..out paths probably crossed way back then.
Over the years we grew closer, and I became 'His'..I had learned, M was/is a man of his word, he is patient, he is stubborn (as I am, he is the only person who has ever out-stubborned me), he is trust worthy, and he wanted to take very good care of me. We also discovered that I had quite an appetite...and tolerance for spankings. Our play sessions became more frequent and longer in duration. My tolerance seemed to grow and Master was...make that is..very good at reading my reactions. Knowing when to push me a little, when to pull back and move on to hugs. Yes, spankings still hurt, some much more than others, but they also served to calm me, and with Master's wonderful after care, to make me feel wanted and cherished.
An unexpected side effect was, I discovered I was a sexual being. Yes, I had three children, and was aware of how that happened LOL. But I also had been convinced that I was not sexually appealing, that it took way too long to get me in the mood...and that I was incapable of having an orgasm. Master almost choked when I told him that I could not orgasm....and anyone who reads here knows that he did prove to me that I could indeed orgasm...
So, it has been a long, wonderful journey of exploration and discovering new things about myself. M and I often tell each other how lucky were to find each other, we share so many things, have so much in common, and are very happy to be growing old...er...older together.
Thanks for indulging me with this post, it has been swirling around in my head for a while...now I can leave that swirling here...hugs abby
I started blogging, at Master's insistence...umm actually he issued a "you will start blogging", when his insistence was not enough. That was in 2010...and I am so happy he did. At that point Master and I had known each other for 7 years. He wanted me to be able to share my thoughts, and hopefully connect with like-minded people. He reads here, but has never been at all negative or critical about anything I have written.
M and I 'met' on line, and chatted for quite a while before we met. He had spanked 'young ladies' for a number of years, been to spanking parties...I had read about, dreamed about and fantasized about spankings for a number of years. After we had chatted for a couple of months, M decided it was time to meet. He gave me a choice of..beer or coffee...I replied, given those 2 choices I always choose beer. Master chuckled...one thing we have in common. Being the wise man he is, he decided we should meet the next day..less time for me to agonize and think myself out of it. I did sit in the parking lot and almost talk myself out of it, but something in me knew...now or never.
I walked in...and that was the best beer I ever had. We chatted non-stop, he made me laugh, we discovered we actually had quite a few things in common (besides the obvious), and yes, even then he did seem to be able to read my mind. I got my first spanking that very evening....fully clothed and with his hand...but...finally...I had been spanked.
We continued to chat and get to know each other, and about a month later had my second spanking...still fully dressed, and with his hand, but this time on my bared bottom.
Around this time, my oldest daughter got engaged, and I wanted to lose weight before the wedding. When I mentioned it to Master, he offered to be my diet coach. I was not sure what that entailed, but knew with help my chances of succeeding were much better. I lost over 50 pounds, in that year before the wedding, at times it was a painful process. I was introduced to Master's 'toy bag'....and was in shock for a week...it was heavy and had lots of items in there.
By the time of my daughter's wedding, we had learned a lot about each other, we are very close in age, we went to catholic schools, we had the same sense of humor, we felt the same strong way about family..in fact, my youngest and his son were born on the same day, same year, same hospital..out paths probably crossed way back then.
Over the years we grew closer, and I became 'His'..I had learned, M was/is a man of his word, he is patient, he is stubborn (as I am, he is the only person who has ever out-stubborned me), he is trust worthy, and he wanted to take very good care of me. We also discovered that I had quite an appetite...and tolerance for spankings. Our play sessions became more frequent and longer in duration. My tolerance seemed to grow and Master was...make that is..very good at reading my reactions. Knowing when to push me a little, when to pull back and move on to hugs. Yes, spankings still hurt, some much more than others, but they also served to calm me, and with Master's wonderful after care, to make me feel wanted and cherished.
An unexpected side effect was, I discovered I was a sexual being. Yes, I had three children, and was aware of how that happened LOL. But I also had been convinced that I was not sexually appealing, that it took way too long to get me in the mood...and that I was incapable of having an orgasm. Master almost choked when I told him that I could not orgasm....and anyone who reads here knows that he did prove to me that I could indeed orgasm...
So, it has been a long, wonderful journey of exploration and discovering new things about myself. M and I often tell each other how lucky were to find each other, we share so many things, have so much in common, and are very happy to be growing old...er...older together.
Thanks for indulging me with this post, it has been swirling around in my head for a while...now I can leave that swirling here...hugs abby
"Not Being Accommodating"*
*Title provided by Master...
In my world, Monday is maintenance day. We don't always get to it on Mondays, but it has been part of our lives for...at least 10 years now. In all that time, one would think it would have become routine..and some parts of it are a routine, but he still manages to keep it fresh and surprise me on a regular basis. Yesterday was a combination of the old and the new.
As is the norm, we start with my naked kneeling. Master usually starts off playing with my nipples, pulling, pinching, rubbing. This time, He is using his mouth...his lips, his tongue, his teeth. He is being relentless and I am starting to squirm and pant. He pauses just long enough to tell me..there is one way to stop this. We have this little battle often, and I know I never win, but some days, I just have to try. He wants me to ask for my maintenance spanking...I do not like to ask....He continues, and as he switches from one breast to the other, he gives me that 'look'...cumming without permission is not accepetable. Finally, like always happens, I ask, he grins and says...I don't feel like being accommodating today, so good thing you asked....ut oh. After another few (seems longer than that) minutes I am 'invited ' over his lap.
As soon as I am settled, he starts in with the maintenance paddle, my head pops up and I say...loudly...you forgot my warm-up. He grins and says you asked for maintenance..not a warm-up. I start to reply and I hear....I don't feel like being accommodating today. Four sets of 25 later He is done and is nicely rubbing my bottom, loving the heat that is being generated.
Time for the spanking bench, Master asks if a flogging would help me smile:)! He starts with the smaller flogger, swishing it all over, stopping for some flogging on my back, working his way down my body, yes I am relaxing and smiling.
He then moves to the larger flogger, any remaining tenseness is being pushed out and away, and I do not mention a word about his being 'accommodating'.
Next I feel a much harder sting....the split tail leather strap...small, but tiny. "did not want you to think I was being too accommodating"....After a few sets, he asks if I would like to end with the large strop. Although it looks intimidating it is one of my favorites, and on an already very warm bottom, I quickly say...Yes Sir! He stops after each set, to 'rub the honey pot', making sure I am fully enjoying the strop. I hear 'last set', meaning harder ones, but I am so in the zone, they are just right.
Master helps me up and off the bench....and decides it is time for him to be very accommodating...and several permissions later, we are snuggling and needing a nap!
Have a good week all....snow is actually melting here....but might get a white Easter..ugh!
hugs abby
In my world, Monday is maintenance day. We don't always get to it on Mondays, but it has been part of our lives for...at least 10 years now. In all that time, one would think it would have become routine..and some parts of it are a routine, but he still manages to keep it fresh and surprise me on a regular basis. Yesterday was a combination of the old and the new.
As is the norm, we start with my naked kneeling. Master usually starts off playing with my nipples, pulling, pinching, rubbing. This time, He is using his mouth...his lips, his tongue, his teeth. He is being relentless and I am starting to squirm and pant. He pauses just long enough to tell me..there is one way to stop this. We have this little battle often, and I know I never win, but some days, I just have to try. He wants me to ask for my maintenance spanking...I do not like to ask....He continues, and as he switches from one breast to the other, he gives me that 'look'...cumming without permission is not accepetable. Finally, like always happens, I ask, he grins and says...I don't feel like being accommodating today, so good thing you asked....ut oh. After another few (seems longer than that) minutes I am 'invited ' over his lap.
As soon as I am settled, he starts in with the maintenance paddle, my head pops up and I say...loudly...you forgot my warm-up. He grins and says you asked for maintenance..not a warm-up. I start to reply and I hear....I don't feel like being accommodating today. Four sets of 25 later He is done and is nicely rubbing my bottom, loving the heat that is being generated.
Time for the spanking bench, Master asks if a flogging would help me smile:)! He starts with the smaller flogger, swishing it all over, stopping for some flogging on my back, working his way down my body, yes I am relaxing and smiling.
He then moves to the larger flogger, any remaining tenseness is being pushed out and away, and I do not mention a word about his being 'accommodating'.
Next I feel a much harder sting....the split tail leather strap...small, but tiny. "did not want you to think I was being too accommodating"....After a few sets, he asks if I would like to end with the large strop. Although it looks intimidating it is one of my favorites, and on an already very warm bottom, I quickly say...Yes Sir! He stops after each set, to 'rub the honey pot', making sure I am fully enjoying the strop. I hear 'last set', meaning harder ones, but I am so in the zone, they are just right.
Master helps me up and off the bench....and decides it is time for him to be very accommodating...and several permissions later, we are snuggling and needing a nap!
Have a good week all....snow is actually melting here....but might get a white Easter..ugh!
hugs abby
Sunday, March 25, 2018
Orange Lacy Undies!
When Master and I were first getting to know each other, we were always thrilled...and I was more that a little amazed...to find out how much we had in common. One of the things that surprised us both was that we both love the color orange...One day he said that he had noticed that I wore a lot of orange, clothing and accent pieces. My reply was...yes one of my weird traits it that orange is my favorite color. He laughed and proceeded to tell me that the car in the garage that is refurbishing....verrrryyyy slowly...when he is ready to paint it he has already decided it will be orange. I almost did not believe him...but yes, he loves the color orange.
A couple weeks ago I had received a couple of coupons to a department store, one was a birthday coupon and the other to entice me to go back and shop there...together they added up to 30.00 dollars...so it worked! I decided I would buy something for myself, and avoided even looking in the children's or book department. I decided I would look for some thing that would make Master smile. I have looked for orange lacy things before...trust me, they are rare. It took me about 20 minutes of searching...and was about to head to that book department, when I found them...orange ...real orange not reddish or yellowish orange, but positively orange lacy undies...more than what I would normally pay, but I had coupons:!
Fun Friday is the day I decided to surprise him....I put on a sheer black lacy bra and the lacy, orange, boy cut undies..and look in the mirror and think...yikes I look like it should be halloween...lol. But I knew...hoped...that would not be Master's first thought, so I went with it.
Master is telling me to get naked and kneeling, while He is looking around in his toy bag. I undress and strike a pose..something I never do...and He turns around is about to say something...and then his eyes light up and he gets this big grin.....no, he is not thinking about halloween. He very much approves.
He has me kneel between his legs, he has my little wheely thingy...and uses it on my breasts. Up an down, around in a circle, and then settles in on my nipples. Criss/crossing them each time a little harder. I am starting to squirm, and then pant, when he asks if I am enjoying...no answer necessary...he does find the proof that I am.
Time for me to get on the spanking bench, and he decides to use the restraints. He starts off with his belt, doubled then single. Once I am used to the sensation, I am relaxing into the smacks. When I start ouching loudly, He switches to the large leather strop....one of my favorite toys. It is bigger and wider than the belt, but I think that makes the pain not so concentrated, and I am relaxing into it quickly. After a few sets Master decides it is enough..I am not so sure, but I am more than ready for other activities:).
Master releases the restraints, and massages my body, before helping me up. And yes...we do get comfy and move on to more fun, pleasurable activities:):):)
Have a good week all.....don't tell mother nature, but we might actually warm up a bit this week, and no snow, finally!
hugs abby
A couple weeks ago I had received a couple of coupons to a department store, one was a birthday coupon and the other to entice me to go back and shop there...together they added up to 30.00 dollars...so it worked! I decided I would buy something for myself, and avoided even looking in the children's or book department. I decided I would look for some thing that would make Master smile. I have looked for orange lacy things before...trust me, they are rare. It took me about 20 minutes of searching...and was about to head to that book department, when I found them...orange ...real orange not reddish or yellowish orange, but positively orange lacy undies...more than what I would normally pay, but I had coupons:!
Fun Friday is the day I decided to surprise him....I put on a sheer black lacy bra and the lacy, orange, boy cut undies..and look in the mirror and think...yikes I look like it should be halloween...lol. But I knew...hoped...that would not be Master's first thought, so I went with it.
Master is telling me to get naked and kneeling, while He is looking around in his toy bag. I undress and strike a pose..something I never do...and He turns around is about to say something...and then his eyes light up and he gets this big grin.....no, he is not thinking about halloween. He very much approves.
He has me kneel between his legs, he has my little wheely thingy...and uses it on my breasts. Up an down, around in a circle, and then settles in on my nipples. Criss/crossing them each time a little harder. I am starting to squirm, and then pant, when he asks if I am enjoying...no answer necessary...he does find the proof that I am.
Time for me to get on the spanking bench, and he decides to use the restraints. He starts off with his belt, doubled then single. Once I am used to the sensation, I am relaxing into the smacks. When I start ouching loudly, He switches to the large leather strop....one of my favorite toys. It is bigger and wider than the belt, but I think that makes the pain not so concentrated, and I am relaxing into it quickly. After a few sets Master decides it is enough..I am not so sure, but I am more than ready for other activities:).
Master releases the restraints, and massages my body, before helping me up. And yes...we do get comfy and move on to more fun, pleasurable activities:):):)
Have a good week all.....don't tell mother nature, but we might actually warm up a bit this week, and no snow, finally!
hugs abby
Friday, March 23, 2018
FFF update :):)
I have read a couple updates, looks like many of us had a good week. Thanks again to Fondles for putting this together, it is motivating and fun to see everyone's updates. I was a little worried about this week, but my back was feeling better by Monday so was back to normal by Tuesday!
De-cluttering...was hoping to go through my closet and sort out the winter clothes and take out the spring ones...but Mother Nature said ...not yet...UGH. So, I have this shoe box filled with greeting cards for every possible holiday and situation. I always tend to end up in the card section when I shop, you know the..I might need this very card some day...thought. I went through, saved the ones I know I will use...and am donating the rest to a local school for special needs to use for art projects..or for the teachers to send to someone...
Walking...My back limited me on this, but it was feeling better on Monday and I got an OK from Master on Tuesday so I did get 3 days in...and am headed to walk the circuit after this. If only Mother Nature would look at the calendar and realize it is almost April...time for spring and walking outside!!
No sitting binges...Once again, had to sit out a couple days because of the back...but started slowly on Monday and have kept it up:)!
Weight loss....Yahoo...loss 2 pounds!!!!
hugs abby
De-cluttering...was hoping to go through my closet and sort out the winter clothes and take out the spring ones...but Mother Nature said ...not yet...UGH. So, I have this shoe box filled with greeting cards for every possible holiday and situation. I always tend to end up in the card section when I shop, you know the..I might need this very card some day...thought. I went through, saved the ones I know I will use...and am donating the rest to a local school for special needs to use for art projects..or for the teachers to send to someone...
Walking...My back limited me on this, but it was feeling better on Monday and I got an OK from Master on Tuesday so I did get 3 days in...and am headed to walk the circuit after this. If only Mother Nature would look at the calendar and realize it is almost April...time for spring and walking outside!!
No sitting binges...Once again, had to sit out a couple days because of the back...but started slowly on Monday and have kept it up:)!
Weight loss....Yahoo...loss 2 pounds!!!!
hugs abby
Wednesday, March 21, 2018
A Variety Spanking....
My first title for this post was 'Maintenance Tuesday'...I knew I had used it before, but titles are getting hard to come by and I figured probably no one would notice. But I could not live with it...so new title...
My back was 'twitching' over the weekend, so I applied heat,took tylenol, and moved as little as possible. I have had it 'go out' on me, and that is no fun. Monday it was a little better, but neither if us wanted to risk it. Tuesday it felt normal, and I insisted it was fine, so Master said he would help me whenever I had to move, and if I felt even the slightest twitch, I was to tell him immediately. I did promise, and all went fine....well except for my bottom.
Master helps me with kneeling, and He is claiming me, touching all of me, concentrating on my nipples for a long time. My eyes are closed, I sometimes try to convince myself that if I can't see it...it will be easier to accept. Then I feel a totally different sensation and my eyes pop open. My little 'wheely thingy' has someone made an appearance and he is using it up, down, across, around, over the middle...my breast. As he continues he increases the pressure, enjoying the slight marking it is leaving. I am starting to let him know that it too much, when he asks if 'the girls' need some soothing...I nod my head. He is soon, licking and sucking and 'soothing' them, but I am starting to pant...too much soothing... since there has been no maintenance yet.
I am over his lap, expecting a hand warm up, and i feel a different sensation...I pop my head up, Master is grinning. He is using the small leather paddle, he says I often say that this paddle reminds me of his hand, and is one of my favorites...he is correct on both points. All too soon , there is not mistaking the feel of the maintenance paddle. The usual 4 sets of 25....hard spanks.
Master then asks if I think I will be comfortable on the bench...it has great support so I say yes. He shows me he has figured out a way to drape a towel off the back end....so there is not need for a rug clean-up ( smart man that he is). He helps me get up and on it, with directions again, to immediately let him know if i feel the slightest discomfort from my back. He has chosen a smallish all leather strap and it is just right. Too soon he stops and says, I have been promising you something.
I look at him, not knowing where he is going. He laughs and says...you always want to forget all about this. He is putting on a rubber glove and lubricating it...and the light bulb goes on. He has been a mentioning that it has been a long time between fistings...and yes, I do try to ignore that conversation.
He reminds me that relaxing is key...yeah....and also reminds me that I love this first part. Master knows that getting me all wet..and lubricated on my own....will make everything much easier...and it do love this part :)! When I am ready, Master tells me he thinks the bench positions me just right, all open and waiting for him. He starts, one finger, two.........more stimulation...three fingers.....and then finally four. Master then tells me He is going to put His thumb, into a different 'hole'. I hear....all mine...as He starts to move his fingers and his thumb. Between my wetness and his lubed fingers, and the movement, it does not take long before I am trying to voice the words to ask for a permission...Master laughs and grants a permission...or a few. When I am just laying on the bench, spent, Master remarks...having that towel there was a great idea, much easier clean up after your mess....he laughs and assures me..he loves 'my mess'.
Master helps me up, and pulls me into His lap, he asks about my back.....what back?? We snuggle and recuperate and finally decide...time for food!
And....yes thanks to Katie, I have managed to give the blog a somewhat new look...the never ending hope that spring will soon be here!
hugs abby
My back was 'twitching' over the weekend, so I applied heat,took tylenol, and moved as little as possible. I have had it 'go out' on me, and that is no fun. Monday it was a little better, but neither if us wanted to risk it. Tuesday it felt normal, and I insisted it was fine, so Master said he would help me whenever I had to move, and if I felt even the slightest twitch, I was to tell him immediately. I did promise, and all went fine....well except for my bottom.
Master helps me with kneeling, and He is claiming me, touching all of me, concentrating on my nipples for a long time. My eyes are closed, I sometimes try to convince myself that if I can't see it...it will be easier to accept. Then I feel a totally different sensation and my eyes pop open. My little 'wheely thingy' has someone made an appearance and he is using it up, down, across, around, over the middle...my breast. As he continues he increases the pressure, enjoying the slight marking it is leaving. I am starting to let him know that it too much, when he asks if 'the girls' need some soothing...I nod my head. He is soon, licking and sucking and 'soothing' them, but I am starting to pant...too much soothing... since there has been no maintenance yet.
I am over his lap, expecting a hand warm up, and i feel a different sensation...I pop my head up, Master is grinning. He is using the small leather paddle, he says I often say that this paddle reminds me of his hand, and is one of my favorites...he is correct on both points. All too soon , there is not mistaking the feel of the maintenance paddle. The usual 4 sets of 25....hard spanks.
Master then asks if I think I will be comfortable on the bench...it has great support so I say yes. He shows me he has figured out a way to drape a towel off the back end....so there is not need for a rug clean-up ( smart man that he is). He helps me get up and on it, with directions again, to immediately let him know if i feel the slightest discomfort from my back. He has chosen a smallish all leather strap and it is just right. Too soon he stops and says, I have been promising you something.
I look at him, not knowing where he is going. He laughs and says...you always want to forget all about this. He is putting on a rubber glove and lubricating it...and the light bulb goes on. He has been a mentioning that it has been a long time between fistings...and yes, I do try to ignore that conversation.
He reminds me that relaxing is key...yeah....and also reminds me that I love this first part. Master knows that getting me all wet..and lubricated on my own....will make everything much easier...and it do love this part :)! When I am ready, Master tells me he thinks the bench positions me just right, all open and waiting for him. He starts, one finger, two.........more stimulation...three fingers.....and then finally four. Master then tells me He is going to put His thumb, into a different 'hole'. I hear....all mine...as He starts to move his fingers and his thumb. Between my wetness and his lubed fingers, and the movement, it does not take long before I am trying to voice the words to ask for a permission...Master laughs and grants a permission...or a few. When I am just laying on the bench, spent, Master remarks...having that towel there was a great idea, much easier clean up after your mess....he laughs and assures me..he loves 'my mess'.
Master helps me up, and pulls me into His lap, he asks about my back.....what back?? We snuggle and recuperate and finally decide...time for food!
And....yes thanks to Katie, I have managed to give the blog a somewhat new look...the never ending hope that spring will soon be here!
hugs abby
Sunday, March 18, 2018
FFF7....finally!
I know I am making it a habit of being late for these...being tardy is not usually one of my faults.
FFF...not a stellar week, but Master has stepped in...and promises all of you he will be 'encouraging' me in my goals....
De-cluttering...I was going to go through my closet and sort and make a donation bag and get the spring/summer things out...but we had another storm...and maybe another one this week....we are way over 100 inches for this year.
Walking....I did get in the 5 days...and as Master always tells me to do...I did put a 'wriggle' in it...as opposed to a stroll..in it!
No sitting binges...50/50 on this one...no excuses here, I just have to do it...
Weight loss...none for this week, and I am still about 2 pounds above my lowest...so I need to do better...
A BIG SHOUT-OUT to Katie who spent over an hour with me trying to solve the problems with my blog. We did not solve the not being able to get into some blogs, although I discovered today that I can use some of the links from Fondle's updates to get into a couple. She did help me back every thing up and showed me how to navigate and update..she was sooooo patient! If you do not hear from me in a comment it is because I am still working on getting into your blog....
We did have maintenance on Monday this past week....on the spanking bench for the first time. I am comfortable on it, and realize that not everyone has a bench built to their needs. I found that I prefer to be on Master's lap for maintenance. It is a hard spanking, and I need the closeness that being over his lap gives me....
Later in the week, I found myself back up on the bench, for a caning. Master did start with a wonderful hand warm-up, that had me so relaxed. Then the first swish of the cane, followed by a lot more...no way can I keep count. I found that being on the bench...even without being tied...does make it a lot easier for me during a caning. No attempt to try and move and I can still be LOUD about the ouchiness. Finally, Master is pleased with the 'design' he has created and He steps forward to rub out some of the burn. He then decides to see if spanking my pussy will have the same effect as last time...when I came and gushed...repeat, repeat. I can report that yes...a caning does not diminish my reaction to being on the bench, freshly spanked, and having Master hand spank my pussy....go figure!
Hope you all have a good week...and I am hoping that we will not get any more snow this week...ENOUGH of that white stuff!
hugs abby
FFF...not a stellar week, but Master has stepped in...and promises all of you he will be 'encouraging' me in my goals....
De-cluttering...I was going to go through my closet and sort and make a donation bag and get the spring/summer things out...but we had another storm...and maybe another one this week....we are way over 100 inches for this year.
Walking....I did get in the 5 days...and as Master always tells me to do...I did put a 'wriggle' in it...as opposed to a stroll..in it!
No sitting binges...50/50 on this one...no excuses here, I just have to do it...
Weight loss...none for this week, and I am still about 2 pounds above my lowest...so I need to do better...
A BIG SHOUT-OUT to Katie who spent over an hour with me trying to solve the problems with my blog. We did not solve the not being able to get into some blogs, although I discovered today that I can use some of the links from Fondle's updates to get into a couple. She did help me back every thing up and showed me how to navigate and update..she was sooooo patient! If you do not hear from me in a comment it is because I am still working on getting into your blog....
We did have maintenance on Monday this past week....on the spanking bench for the first time. I am comfortable on it, and realize that not everyone has a bench built to their needs. I found that I prefer to be on Master's lap for maintenance. It is a hard spanking, and I need the closeness that being over his lap gives me....
Later in the week, I found myself back up on the bench, for a caning. Master did start with a wonderful hand warm-up, that had me so relaxed. Then the first swish of the cane, followed by a lot more...no way can I keep count. I found that being on the bench...even without being tied...does make it a lot easier for me during a caning. No attempt to try and move and I can still be LOUD about the ouchiness. Finally, Master is pleased with the 'design' he has created and He steps forward to rub out some of the burn. He then decides to see if spanking my pussy will have the same effect as last time...when I came and gushed...repeat, repeat. I can report that yes...a caning does not diminish my reaction to being on the bench, freshly spanked, and having Master hand spank my pussy....go figure!
Hope you all have a good week...and I am hoping that we will not get any more snow this week...ENOUGH of that white stuff!
hugs abby
Sunday, March 11, 2018
HELP!!! Please!!
Blogger is not welcoming me back!!! First I had a problem getting into my own blog, I have to go to my list of entries, hit view blog, then accept terms button...that was annoying, but doable.
Then when I went to read MorningStar's blog, I could not get access...I thought that was strange, but figured if I gave it a day or two it might just be a glitch.
Now, I also cannot gain access to Amy and Eric's blog....anyone having this problem...and anyone have any suggestions...I am holding my breath to see what blog seems to block me next....
hugs abby
Then when I went to read MorningStar's blog, I could not get access...I thought that was strange, but figured if I gave it a day or two it might just be a glitch.
Now, I also cannot gain access to Amy and Eric's blog....anyone having this problem...and anyone have any suggestions...I am holding my breath to see what blog seems to block me next....
hugs abby
Friday, March 9, 2018
FFF 6 and more....
I have been away....more on that to follow...so this FFF update is not the usual...
De-clutter...nothing has been sorted or discarded, in fact I did bring a few new things back from my trip.....and since we went where the weather is much warmer than here (where it just keeps snowing) my closet is now stuffed with 2 seasons of clothing.
No sitting binges...I aced this one while away...mostly just sat to eat, and the few times we ended up playing games for a bit. Other than that, I was on the go...go...go!
Walking 5 hours a week...More than doubled this one...
Weight loss....well, in spite of all that walking, I gained 1.5 pounds, something to do with ice cream and buffets and lava cakes...you get the picture...
But, I am back 'in the saddle' so to speak, since otherwise, I have been told my bottom will be too sore to sit on a saddle.
I spent the past week in Branson, Missouri with 3 college friends. Npne of us had ever been there...it was a great choice. It was off season, so some of the places were not opened, but we had more that enough to do...and the traffic was not crazy and we were able to get last minute tickets! We saw 4 shows, toured an underground cave that was amazing, shopped at an old fashioned Main street, drove an ATV on a very muddy trail (this one has a long story attached to it...we did not plan on this one) and all needed long showers...ate at a large variety of places, with a variety of food...went to the Titanic Museum, the building is a replica of the ship....on my birthday had an amazing brunch at the College of the Ozark's where they train chefs, we ate for 90 minutes, they sang to me, and got my own chocolate lave cake...yes I did share. We laughed a lot, recalled 'old times', explored new places and already have decided we will do it again...some place new to all of us...next year.
Master welcomed be back with the traditional hugs...and not so traditional (for some) spanking. Over his lap, for a delicious hand warm-up followed by that darn maintenance paddle...4 sets of 25. Then I was up on the spanking bench, starting with his belt...then the large strop....the pooh paddle..and finally snuggling and loving.
I have slowly started to catch up with all of you, since SNOW seems to be the only work the weather man knows lately, I will have more time to see what you all have been up to!
hugs abby
De-clutter...nothing has been sorted or discarded, in fact I did bring a few new things back from my trip.....and since we went where the weather is much warmer than here (where it just keeps snowing) my closet is now stuffed with 2 seasons of clothing.
No sitting binges...I aced this one while away...mostly just sat to eat, and the few times we ended up playing games for a bit. Other than that, I was on the go...go...go!
Walking 5 hours a week...More than doubled this one...
Weight loss....well, in spite of all that walking, I gained 1.5 pounds, something to do with ice cream and buffets and lava cakes...you get the picture...
But, I am back 'in the saddle' so to speak, since otherwise, I have been told my bottom will be too sore to sit on a saddle.
I spent the past week in Branson, Missouri with 3 college friends. Npne of us had ever been there...it was a great choice. It was off season, so some of the places were not opened, but we had more that enough to do...and the traffic was not crazy and we were able to get last minute tickets! We saw 4 shows, toured an underground cave that was amazing, shopped at an old fashioned Main street, drove an ATV on a very muddy trail (this one has a long story attached to it...we did not plan on this one) and all needed long showers...ate at a large variety of places, with a variety of food...went to the Titanic Museum, the building is a replica of the ship....on my birthday had an amazing brunch at the College of the Ozark's where they train chefs, we ate for 90 minutes, they sang to me, and got my own chocolate lave cake...yes I did share. We laughed a lot, recalled 'old times', explored new places and already have decided we will do it again...some place new to all of us...next year.
Master welcomed be back with the traditional hugs...and not so traditional (for some) spanking. Over his lap, for a delicious hand warm-up followed by that darn maintenance paddle...4 sets of 25. Then I was up on the spanking bench, starting with his belt...then the large strop....the pooh paddle..and finally snuggling and loving.
I have slowly started to catch up with all of you, since SNOW seems to be the only work the weather man knows lately, I will have more time to see what you all have been up to!
hugs abby
Thursday, March 1, 2018
FFF 5
.......or FFT since it is Thursday. I wanted to get my report in since I am off in a few hours for a long anticipated vacation. I am meeting up with 3 college friends...it has been way too long...for a week of fun...in Branson Missouri . Thanks to Baker for some great ideas to add to our fun!
Declutter....while I was packing, I did some more weeding out the closet. M ...and my daughter...get after me for wearing clothes that are at least 2 sizes too big...they are comfortable. So...there is another bag of donations for when I return.
No sitting binges...I guess this is the one I really have to work on, I was the least successful at this ...I just seem to get too involved in what I am reading or watching or that darn crossword puzzle.
Walking 5 hours a week...nailed this one, with some to spare...and I am guessing this next week, this might be the only one that I am successful with completing.
Weight loss...down a half a pound...I will take it!
I am getting out of town just in time...that storm is due here starting tonight...at least a foot of heavy snow...stay safe all of you in the path of this one....
Have a great week...
hugs abby
Declutter....while I was packing, I did some more weeding out the closet. M ...and my daughter...get after me for wearing clothes that are at least 2 sizes too big...they are comfortable. So...there is another bag of donations for when I return.
No sitting binges...I guess this is the one I really have to work on, I was the least successful at this ...I just seem to get too involved in what I am reading or watching or that darn crossword puzzle.
Walking 5 hours a week...nailed this one, with some to spare...and I am guessing this next week, this might be the only one that I am successful with completing.
Weight loss...down a half a pound...I will take it!
I am getting out of town just in time...that storm is due here starting tonight...at least a foot of heavy snow...stay safe all of you in the path of this one....
Have a great week...
hugs abby
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