.....Hi there, I have spent the last 2 weeks wearing my grandma hat...it was lots of fun, but I have to admit...I am not as young as I used to be..LOL. My daughter and her crew left this morning, and I have spent today, collecting things that were forgotten , changing beds, emptying the fridge of further 'temptations' and restoring some normalcy.
A word of warning, about the only fun activity that did not take place is anything related to spanking. That will resume soon, M keeps scratching his palm. But this post has nothing to do with spanking or submission...if that is what you are looking for...you are excused for today.
When my kids were little every time we would go visit my mom and dad, my mom would come up with something that would have me saying...really mom??? If you have read here for a while, you know that she would bring up a tray for them to have breakfast in bed...a bowl of ice cream with dishes of various toppings..and a glass of milk..so it was healthy, was one of many....'memory making ' moments she would come up with. And yes....they do remember memere and the fun they had with her still today.
Seems I have happily inherited that gene. Thought I would share one of those fun times we had on this visit. My grandson (7) loves to cook. For Christmas I got him a subscription for a once a month delivery of a menu, a book to keep them in, a child sized cooking utensil and all the dry ingredients. He has loved it...there were breakfasts, salad, desserts and meals. Not all of it stuff he would eat, but as he explained to his mom....chefs cook for others..they do not have to like what they are cooking.
So, as a thank-you he wanted to cook a complete meal while he was visiting for everyone. With his mom's help, it took most of an afternoon to make a salad, stuffed chicken, pasta, garlic bread and individual lava cakes for dessert. When dinner was almost ready I had the sudden idea that I should 'dress' for dinner, since it was so special. I whispered to my daughter to let me know when it was ready, I was going up to change for dinner...she looked at me....but I said I just want H to know I appreciate his efforts.
I got to my room and was looking in my closet ...when suddenly....I thought....a very special dinner, should be a very special guest...who is more special than the QUEEN??? So I rummaged quickly, and came up with a long shimmery summer dress, I wrapped a white summer shawl around the top, added lots of long necklaces, and...since I collect frogs...I have lots of frog pins as jewelry...so added those to the shawl...some fancy flip flops....and the final touch....a large orange headband covered with orange flowers (yes there is a story that goes with that.....). Just as I finished, I heard my daughter call...dinner time.
I made my appearance, announcing... the Queen had heard that one of her subjects had worked hard on a dinner, so she decided to attend the celebration as a thank you for the meal. (Luckily, my son got his phone out an took pictures of the kids faces ...all were wide-eyed and large smiles). As an added, thank you, the queen had a large velvet pouch and handed out a gift to the most loyal of her subjects. (I had bought matching July 4th shirts and had not doled them out yet)...so I handed each of the kids their shirt.
Dinner was indeed very delicious...and the lava cakes...Oh my!!!! Later, when it was bedtime, my daughter came down stairs and said...the kids said ...grandma always has a funny surprise for us, and this one was really funny! My son came down and said....the kids asked him where does grandma get all her fun ideas...he said he had no idea!
Mission accomplished
Memories made...
hugs abby
Oh I love this story soooo much. I hope I become as creative a grandmother as you are!!
ReplyDeleteI am willing to wager that you will find many ways to be a creative grandmother...it is soooo much fun. hugs abby
DeleteAbby, you sound like a WONDERFUL Grandma! Oh, the kids had to be so excited for the Queen's visit. They will remember that for the rest of their lives and will tell it to their own children and grandchildren some day. I loved today's post. I found myself imagining as I was reading it! Thanks so much for sharing this precious memory here with us. Hugs! Windy
ReplyDeleteGlad you enjoyed...I really wavered about sharing it...hugs abby
DeleteHi Abby, Oh what a super Grandma you are!!
ReplyDeletelove Jan, xx
Thanks...it is a super easy job to excel at! hugs abby
DeleteOh that sounds simply maaaah-velous! What an awesome grandma you are! I never knew any of my granparents as they all passed on before i was born, but i imagine i missed out on a lot of fun!
ReplyDeleteLOL...love the maaaah-velous...I am lucky enough to be able to make lots of memories with the grands...it is a blessing. hugs abby
DeleteHi Abby,
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful memory you created for your grands, you are indeed the Queen of Grandma's. I do love hearing about your family time Abby. You are very blessed :)
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Roz
I am so very blessed, we do not always agree, but we always remember...we are family. hugs abby
DeleteYup, Queen of the Grandmas! How wonderful this is!
ReplyDeleteahhh...thanks! hugs abby
DeletePlaying with kids keeps you young and happy, Abby. Don't have any grands myself, but I always loved spoiling my nieces and nephews. For the girls I filled an old trunk with dress-up clothes for their 4th birthday. Lately I have a precious grand niece, and am already started on her trunk.
ReplyDeleteYou really rock the grandma thing!
Ella
I scour the craft stores for the grands 5th birthdays and give them craft trunks...they love it! We think alike! hugs abby
DeleteYou, my friend- brought happy tears to my eyes! I hope I can find that happy inner child when I have grand kids! Love this!
ReplyDeleteAwww...thanks...I bet it will find you....all the fun and not having the main responsibility....it is great! hugs abby
DeleteSo glad you posted this, Abby. What a wonderful grandma you are.
ReplyDeleteRosie xx
So much easier being a grandma than raising their parents....hugs abby
DeleteB told me this morning to come and read your post ( yes he reads here he just doesn't comment..LOL). Your story was beautiful. There is such a special bond between grandmothers and their grandkids. I still miss mine terribly. Now as for MY Mom, I think, what the heck? When did you become so chill. She one told me she's not responsible for their well being, just their happiness when they spend time together. I can't WAIT for that- only I can because well you know, our oldest isn't even 21 yet! lol.
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Say hi to B for me and thank him for reading here...So sorry about your mom, makes me realize , once again, how lucky I was....it is a major loss for her, but even more sadly for the kiddos..always love hearing from you..hugs abby
DeleteSo happy for you and your grandkids that you get get and take such advantage of the opportunities to make special memories for them. I have 3 grandsons who all live a stones throw away. I often 'do daycare' and as such have to walk that fine line of being a parenting grandparent. I have to admit I get a little pang of jealousy when the distant grandparents swoop in a couple times a year to great excitement, special treats and fun times. I console myself with the thought I am aiding in laying a good strong foundation of life skills. Here's to many more Grandma times for you my friend ... and I for one are happy to see your return from vacay to Blogland :) ... hugs .. nj
ReplyDeleteFunny, I often wish my grands were local....guess it is all perspective. You are making a big impact on those grands of yours...they are lucky to have you so close. I do have local friend who tell me I see my grands so much more than they see theirs...that is so sad...for both sides...hugs abby
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