Thursday, January 11, 2018

Bored....No Way!

      One of the questions Master will ask me periodically is..."are you bored, yet"...I always answer no...He is very creative, in many ways, and as He puts it likes to keep me on my toes...
     I think I am fairly good at surprises and can be creative...I have mentioned here one of the things I will sometimes do when I am away, or life has become very busy, is I will text Him every hour, sometime during the hour.  Usually just a variation of I am thinking of you, something along the thought of 'all of me, all of the time, sometimes a pic...a mixture of things just to let Him know I am thinking of Him.  He always says He enjoys such days, gives him a lift and something to look forward to. 
        On New Year's Eve, He was working, and I decided to do the hourly texting, but switched it up a little by adding a theme...favorite memories of us.  He loved it....and I very much enjoyed the walk..texting..down memory lane.  I was thinking it would be a nice occasional thing to add something to as ordinary day...silly me.
        Since then Master has informed me three times of the theme for the day for my hourly text....I do enjoy it and am please He does also..but I was planning a much more occasional thing.  His themes have been...the hardest or scariest things that He has asked of me.  This one took a lot of thought. When we first started, just about everything fit into this category. Later, when we were discussing the list he added a couple of things that he expected to see, that were not on the list...but, he was right.  His next theme was...things you have learned about me.  I thought I might need to be a little careful about this, but it turned out to be the easiest one yet...
       Yesterday I was told to pick a toy from his 'toy bag' every hour and rate it.  He has quite a toy bag, and I tried to even out the low rated toys and the higher ones....to my way of thinking...or feeling them.  Yesterday was also maintenance day..yes on a Wednesday, life is still keeping us very occupied with many things.  
      We started with , as always, my naked kneeling time.   I was really squirming as He concentrated on my nipples, and moved my hands from their required position...clasped behind me...the pinching became much harder and I was told would continue until my hands were back where they belonged.  Quite an incentive for keeping them where He wants them.
Finally I was invited over his lap, starting with a nice hand warm-up followed by 4 sets of 25 with the small, but very effective, maintenance paddle.  I started squirming and ouching very quickly...Master saying that is sign that not enough spanky stuff has been happening.
        Maintenance over with, Master pulled out the horse hair flogger. It is like a mini or baby flogger, and I love it. I had put it on my list as something that does not come out of the toy bag often enough and why I miss it.   He started with it on my back, thighs, had me face him and spread my legs, up and down all over.....it was sooo nice.
        Master then pulled out the rose, brown leather paddle...I had also mentioned that it was one of my favorites, like his hand only covers more territory with each spank. He treated me to a few sets with it, I was so in that wonderful 'spanking zone'.
     Master told me not to fall asleep yet, there was one more toy that I had rated high on my list...the flogger. (Sometimes, often, he can be such a sweetie:), he helped me up, and I leaned against the mantle, and Master went up an down my body with the flogger.  By the time He as done I could feel my 'wetness' puddling....Master checked and laughed saying He knew what He would find, and I did not disappoint Him. So, of course we moved on, to ending our play time, both spent and ready for a nap.  
       This morning as he is leaving, I hear...don't forget your hourly text...I look surprised, and asked if that is a new routine...He gives me that ...look...which usually means, yes indeed something new has been added to my day.  As he is walking out he adds...it keeps us much closer all day, and makes his day better.  Bored...no...thankful that I am His...oh yes!
hugs abby
               

23 comments:

  1. Awww, Abby! I love how your whole post shows your outlook is so positive. I think those hourly texts are definitely helping you both stay connected and floggers, well, they are just the best invention ever! So enjoyed this idea of hourly. Maybe I should suggest it to Hoss on days we need to reconnect.
    --Baker

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    1. I have to admit, it is working for us...but it is not meant to be a pressure thing...if I get busy I or have something unexpected come up, I just send him a quick text,...saying busy. I doubt very much it will be an every day thing, but it has been fun...and we both enjoy the days we do it.

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  2. Well first off, let me thank you for your timing. I WAS bored drinking my coffee with nothing to read, and your post popped up! LOL

    I have to say you have me intrigued. I know it is personal, but I am so interested in what was so scary (maybe because there a many things I have been thinking about here with our ttwd past and present- and can't exactly find what I am looking for on blogs concerning my mindset ;) ).

    Anyway, I once was given the task to rate his tools of torture. Actually I think I have had to do it twice, because as you know things seem to change as time goes on. At the time I laughed because Barney had put yellow sticky notes on them as I rated them. I wasn't sorry to see one paddle go! It wasn't that it was harsher really, it was that I had had a few bad experiences ( we went through a good year where I blistered almost all of the time. Turns out it was due to spanking combined with a certain moisturizer I was using that caused and extreme allergic reaction) and I couldn't shake the fear of it. Too bad too because Blondie's husband Ty made it.

    We only have one flogger and it is silicone. It takes me a long while to come to grips with it being used- re I have to be very warmed up if it is used on my back, front thighs, breasts or naughty bits- um well not that the naughty bits get 'warmed up' but I hope you follow my drift. Makes me curious how you clean a horse hair flogger if it is hittin' the bits and you are so.....well LMAO!

    I have to say I envy you abby- not your relationship, but your mindset at times. I find things become very rote for me very quickly (something I try desperately not to happen). I am unsure how I would do being given the texting assignment, even if the theme was different so often. Though in principle it sounds lovely.

    Okay, I've highjacked your blog long enough~ lol

    Have a great weekend
    willie

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    1. Glad my timing was good for you and we got to share your morning coffee...can you imagine us 'dishing' in person over coffee...what fun that would be! The scary things were pretty basic actually and mostly occurred at the beginning of our journey. Being naked in front of him ( I had been continually body shamed by my ex), thinking that I was not 'normal' in my desires and enjoyment of them (I have now accepted the fact that indeed I am not normal and that adds to the fun in life)...having him with me with over use on a credit card....trust issues....We have one of Blondie's paddles also...weapon of a** destruction, M loves it! Glad you figured out the allergy thing, never heard of that...
      Not sure I would be so much in love with a silicone flogger, love the leather one. To clean the horse hair...shampoo it, and can even add conditioner to keep it nice and soft.
      The texting is not an every day thing, we talked about that and agreed it would be too much..and it does depend on what have I have scheduled for my day. I do find I enjoy it at least so far...M is always looking for new ways to add...some more successful than others...
      and...you can 'hijack' this blog at any time, with my blessing!
      hugs abby

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    2. Day two of drinking coffee 'with you' LOL. We (sadly) still have 2 other paddles from Blondie- one that was custom made. Yeah everyone needs a friend like Blondie/Ty- NOT! lol

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  3. Abby,
    I love how you and Master work so well together and in harmony. Great post!
    Meredith

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    1. Thank you, it took us a while to get where we are, but it was worth it. hugs abby

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  4. Hi Abby, I always enjoy reading about you and your Master, you have such an amazing relationship and I love how creative he is.

    I absolutely love the text idea. What a wonderful way to stay connected and I bet it was also a wonderful trip down memory lane :)

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. It was a great trip down memory lane...we both feel very lucky to have traveled through this part of our lives together. hugs abby

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  5. I love that idea - it sure does shake things up. A lot of times I feel like things are boring and there is no D/s in my life... and then I realize no, you've just gotten used to what you already have; it doesn't even seem like a thing anymore. Switching things up keeps it fresh!

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    1. You sound like Master...He loves to keep things fresh..a work he uses often...and he is good at doing just that. You are right about the getting used to what you already have....a surprise every now and then spices things up!
      hugs abby

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  6. Abby, your text assignments seem like a huge undertaking. I, too, was envious of the instant closeness they seemed to create. But I am sure I would be feeling challenged and a bit inadequate if they happened every day. You will have to give us many details soon of how you can measure up to this. Perhaps this is like some Zen space you can attain where you can speak your heart in just a few words. I am most anxious to see where this leads.

    Hugs From Ella

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    1. We did do it for a few days in a row, but it is not an every day thing....it very much depends on our schedules and more importantly if he feels it is needed. I do love doing it....find the right few words...surprising him with some of my thoughts..I think you should try it...it does keep us closer, especially when stress seems to be growing...hugs abby

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  7. How fun! I can do this with Eric. He won't be back until Tuesday so I've got plenty of time to walk down memory lane hour after hour. Sounds like you two are doing well. Keep playing and welcome back. Missed you tons.
    Amy

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    1. I think it is a great idea for you, especially with Eric is away....it can just be random thoughts but the themed ones add a bit to the fun. It does seem to get us closer...hugs abby

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  8. Hi Abby,
    I think this is my first time commenting on your blog. I love how much fun you two have together! And the hourly theme idea is brilliant. I'll have to try it on J!
    Jlynne

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    1. Welcome, love meeting a new friend. We have worked hard...and it was not always easy...to get where we are..and it is a place we are both very happy with..and try to keep fresh. The texting is a simple idea and works well for us...hugs abby

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  9. this sounds delightful...all of it.
    thanks for getting rid of the boredom in my life by letting me live vicariously through your stories :-) Hugs

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  10. You are welcome my sweet friend...I do know and appreciate how luck I am to have found all of this....hugs abby

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  11. Loved reading about your text-assignments! Sounds like you both have fun with it :-)

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    1. We do...we both have been creative with it. hugs abby

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    1. LOL..true and M is not boring...hugs abby

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