Friday, March 11, 2016

Master's turn to answer....

.......Usually when Master answers March questions i anticipate His answers, and write my thoughts before His answers...it is kind of fun to see how close I come...and i am not bragging, but i usually do pretty well.



        Ronnie asks do Master or i have a spanking fantasy that has not been fulfilled? An item on my bucket list?
              As for myself....Master truly has fulfilled all of the simple fantasies I had when we met...and some that I did not even know I had...He is very creative, and likes to surprise me,  often it seems He knows just what I am in the mood for or need.  He will ask me if there is something I want to try....and do His best to make it happen.
                An item on my bucket list would be...a hot air balloon ride!
            Master replied that I have fulfilled His main fantasies...and any new ones that arise....well He has a willing partner...

      Mona Lisa asked: What would be Master's reaction if I said no more maintenance spankings....no more punishments, we will have just fun spankings.
             I thought about this one for a bit, Master and i started out just fun spankings.  We have come a long way since then in many ways...I really honestly thought Master would agree.....no more M/s, rules, maintenance or punishment....I have to add, it would feel like it was such a gigantic step backwards, like something was missing.....I cannot imagine it ever happening.
                Master replied pretty quickly....you gave me your consent to be my submissive, to take me as your Master, if  you take the consent back, and we we are no long M/s.  We still spank, if you agree to.  

DelFonte asks...what does Master get out of maintenance, is it something He needs too...
           Hmmmm, I think it makes His Monday's much more interesting...a good way to start the week.  I also think He likes that it does make a difference....there is no way i am going to 'brat' just to get a harder spanking....I am not sure He needs it, in the same way I do...but I do think that it feeds His dominance.
            Master said, very quickly, He absolutely gets something out of maintenance.  He wakes up on Mondays and smiles at the thought that i will be over His lap and He will be 'coloring' my bottom to  a nice shade of red. (much like this color...;).  It feeds His dominant nature, knowing that i will kneel in front of Him, and submit to a spanking, that will be a hard one, and i will accept it. He also is pleased that it has served its purpose...no punishments for over a year.  Also.....after the spanking...there is some sucking and cumming...

If there are any more questions for Master He welcomes them...and I would say i did pretty well anticipating His answers....

hugs abby




            

24 comments:

  1. Thank you M and abby. Ray loved the hot air balloon ride - I'm a feet on the ground type of gal.

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    1. Hmmm it just seems so peaceful....
      hugs abby

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  2. Awesome post. OK....so....questions....

    questions to both of you:
    What is your favorite way to bring pleasure to your partner? on the vanilla side, what is the most interesting place you have traveled and why?

    hugs,
    fiona

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    1. Thanks for the questions...will get to them..
      good to see you back here..
      hugs abby

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  3. Can I be greedy and ask more questions please Abby? What is your Masters favourite implement? How did he decide on 100 for maintenance? Do you both socialise together apart from your TTWD times. Do both your families know about your relationship. This is for both of you...where would you both travel together for a fun get away.

    Sorry if you think I've asked too much or being nosey I understand.
    Hugs Lindy

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    1. You are not greedy...and ask away...its makes me think..or sometimes just remember some pretty good times...
      hugs abby

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  4. Hi Abby and Master, glad you two are so in sync with each other!
    love Jan,xx

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    1. It took a while to get where we are...but i will admit, it is a darn good place..
      hugs abby

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  5. Thank you Abby and Abbys Master for answer.
    But.. I never said, you will not have M/s.
    Just.... Punishing and mataince spanking will go and consequensess will be apology.
    Talk. Adult level .
    Is it a rule that if we are in M/ s , do M and P spankings must be on? Isn't submission in head?
    My questions was: You have still M/s , but spanking just for fun.

    Hugs ,
    Mona Lisa

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    1. I know this isn't a question for me, but seeing how I too have agreed to being a submissive I thought maybe I'd offer a little bit of back up here.

      The confusion 'appears' to be in the understanding here. Those of us in a D/s M/s O/p etc.. relationship have consented to it. We enjoy the aspects of it. Perhaps not during a punishment, whether physical or restrictions, but the effects of them long after. This does NOT make us not adults. On the contrary, it makes us adults in tune with our needs.

      I most certainly can understand how others who don't feel this way don't fully comprehend how or why the need is there. Heck half the time I can't either. But it is, and we have been fortunate enough to find partners in our lives that understand that, embrace it, and provide a level of comfort by providing what we need. Sounds like the ultimate of an adult level if you ask me.

      I mean no offense Mona Lisa. I wouldn't expect someone who doesn't have this specific need to understand. But I also don't think you will ever find an answer you can accept in this area of blogland because of that.

      willie

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    2. Perfect answer..thanks.
      hugs abby

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    3. Thanks, Willue, for your reply. But you have not understood what my question was about. ok, we ends this disscusion with AbbysMadter answer , as it should be. I am playfull here , I hope that Abby's Master takes no offense. but I think he would answer:
      " I like have punishment in our M/s relation. So I will miss it. But ofcourse, if Abby came to me with proposal to stop this part of out M/s relation, I will do it for her."
      Thank you, Abbys Master.
      Great answer.

      Mona Lisa

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  6. Thank you Master and Abby for the great answers. Do you and Master enjoy any 'vanilla' activities together...going to dinner, movies, shopping, events, etc.?

    Hugs and blessings...Cat

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    1. Yes, we have a life outside of this blog....it is pretty boring...as far as writing about it...most of the time.
      hugs abby

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  7. thank for the answers, you two are definitely made for each other.

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    1. Thanks..we happen to think so too...
      hugs abby

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  8. I love how you formatted this! With answers from both you and him beside each other. The Yin and the Yang. Perfect.

    Hugs for Abby,
    Ella

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    1. LOL..thanks, i love to see how well i can predict His answers..in real life He is mostly unpredictable...
      hugs abby

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  9. Question: do you two ever engage in vaginal sex? (He makes use of two other orifices :-). If not, why not, if that can be shared.

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  10. Question for Abby's Master:

    Amy is frequently all over the emotional board and it's hard for me to hit a moving target. Some days she needs a harsh round with my belt to get her back down to reasonable and rational. Other days, I can't get her to settle down enough to figure out if she needs to be held or put over my knee. Do you find the weekly maintenance keeps Abby more even or was this not an issue for you two? The more time Amy and I are forced to be apart, the harder it is for me to read her signs. Eric

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    1. Eric, I have relayed your question to Master...He thanks you for the question.
      hugs abby

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