M/M day, was M/T (just doesn't have the same ring to it), does it? Master has been struggling with a cold, and He is finally getting the better of it...guess germs are one of the few things He does not control. After He assured me He was much better, today became maintenance day.
After my naked kneeling time, i was over His lap for my hand warm-up. Master reminded me that i did not lose any weight last week, so I needed to show a loss this week...During this time Master and i often chat about life or us...or just strange things that pop up. One of the first things that attracted me to Him was His ability to spar with me verbally...to have a response to almost whatever i throw at Him...and to have a sense of humor about it...most of the time.
Today, Master asks if i am warmed-up enough...of course I say no Sir! He tells me I should look at maintenance as filling up my tank....giving me the incentive I need to have a good week, like a car that needs gas, it has not been bad or naughty, it just needs gas...or incentive...to keep going. I reply...true, then the car is ready to get on with the week and have some fun. Master says...as long as the there is no joy riding..because then the fun has to be paid for.....the car would be grounded....i would be spanked. We have these weird conversations often.
It is time to start maintenance, the only words i am uttering are ouch...4 sets of 25...rubbing between sets, and i get to catch my breath. Master then, of course, checks...and says some part of you was enjoying....'she' is an idiot, i reply. Master then shows me the rewards of taking my maintenance spanking well, and after i explode once, Master is using just the tips of His fingers and nails over my still warmed bottom. I suddenly start to squirm, Master asks if i can feel the electricity too....He is barely touching me, but it is driving me crazy. Master starts using His voice to urge me on, to let go, to feel our connection...and when Master tells me to cum for Him, I do.....until i really do collapse. Master is talking, massaging, getting me to recover...and when i do...I ask how did that happen...He just laughs and says, He knows how to prime a car ....
First question is from lindy...how long have we known each other and how did we meet?
We have known each other for a little over 15 years. We first chatted on line, at the time I was chatting to a few gentlemen. Then, my youngest had an emergency that required my full attention. I told everyone i was not going to be online for a while due to a family emergency. I got a couple good byes...and a couple not so nice comments about making something up....but Master said He would pray for us, and about once a week He would send me a note, letting me know He was thinking about me....So when things settled a bit, I let Him know.
We chatted for a couple more weeks, and Master said it was time we met. I had never met someone just from chatting on-line, and honestly never thought i would. But i decided to take a chance...Master gave me a choice of coffee or a beer....I told Him, beer of course! He laughed and said He liked my honesty. I showed up at the restaurant/bar on time, and sat in my car for almost 15 minutes, trying to decide if i should actually go it. Finally i told myself, it's only a beer.....
We saw each other for the first time, Master got the beers, and we sat and chatted....for a very long time. I was so relaxed, i could not believe it....we laughed, we shared stories, and He used the word spanking a LOT..and we were in a public place. Even then, it was like He could read my mind...which was a little un-nerving. And that was the best beer i have ever had.......
Eric51 Amy 49 asks...When we first started were we in an equal partnership or was He 'Master' from the get go? Secondly, if i could add anything to the dynamic what would i add.....what would i take away?
When we first started, we were spanking, or play partners. We started with a hand spanking, over clothes...and moved on to all the lovely (and not so lovely) 'toys' in His bag. We would meet, maybe every four to six weeks, we kept in contact through chats and emails. The first time He used the word submissive i laughed and said i did not have a submissive bone in my body....He then asked....why did i submit to spankings? So, slowly we started down the M/s path, the trip of a life time!
Your second question, I have been thinking about for a long time.
It is a toughie....We have grown in our dynamic, adding new experiences, growing in our connection, in our M/s.....so, i am not really sure what i would add. Maybe, going to a club, or a party to meet other like minded couples. What i would take away....and no it is not punishment....that has its place, but it is related to the first part of this answer. I would take away the "veil"....wouldn't it be wonderful if we could talk freely to others, and have them not judge or think the worse of us.