I was feeling a little ummmm....."impish" earlier this week. On Wednesday my good morning text to Master included a list of errands, not including Curves. He replied that His list included Curves, i told Him i thought it was wonderful that He was going...He suggested we should meet and compare list. I told Him i would adjust my list, but it would be nice to see Him there.
On Thursday, i told Him my plans....His reply....was a yes, but a 'reminder' that i had not included a may I Sir, or a please. It has been one of my rules, for a long time now, that i must ask for permission to go anyplace. I can ask when we say good morning, or during the day as things come up....He does not like me to ask more than a day in advance. If i don't get an answer in 10 minutes, i may go. (That part was suspended once, when i started assuming a yes)
I very rarely get a no, it is not so much that He wants to restrict my activities, more that He likes to know where i am and what i am doing. Occasionally when i am feeling 'antsy', i will inform rather than ask. He still gets to know my whereabouts, but i am sending a subtle..or not so subtle message.
We had some play time yesterday. During my kneeling time, when He was pinching my nipples, He brought up the informing as opposed to asking. I replied He would never say no to Curves, and i was letting Him know my whereabouts. He was not impressed (anyone out there surprised?). He reminded me that He had offered to meet and compare list on Wednesday and i said i was fine. I admitted that i probably should have agreed, but felt like i could just 'suck it up' knowing it was a busy week for Him. He gave me that....raised eyebrow look....and told me that asking is way different than informing, and i was to ask.
Then i was over His lap for a lovely long hand spanking with lots of rubbing. Just as i was totally relaxed i feel something much smoother and cooler....like a paddle. I am having a bit of a problem adjusting to the change in sensation....that never deters Him. Once i have settled a bit, Master comments that we both seem to enjoy our harder play times, so maybe they should happen more often. I agree my tolerance for our play has increased, but i would not want the harder play all the time. It has been a while, a long while, since we have had an tie me up and empty the toy bag session......we both agree that needs to happen.
We stop chatting and Master finishes up His paddling, i am wriggling, my bottom hinting about other activities. He tells me to get up, lean over and be sure by bottom is up and out....He is getting the cane. A surprise, i am not sure i am ready for....as i move slowly and let out a groan. He comments He just gave me a wonderful warm-up, to get moving.
I am in position, i am never ready for that first swish. Master continues, each set a bit harder. After the first few, i have adjusted to the sting, with breaks for rubbing. Master finishes and tells me not to move, to leave my bottom right where it is. He is checking and is very pleased at what He finds. He decides to take me from behind, i need several permissions, until i cannot stand any more and collapse.....He is there with me, as reality settles in.
We get up and i go to get my clothes, without thinking i start to put on my bra....He gives me an "AHEM". One of my first rules... i must ask to get dressed. Sounds simple enough, but we both laugh (we now laugh) at how long it took me to submit...I quickly ask for permission and get a 'not yet, i am not finished". I look at Him puzzled....He puts His leg up on the ottoman and signals me to lean over. He is holding the paddle....."These next spanks are for informing and not asking, asking is to remind you that i am always in charge, you are always Mine". It is one fast set....but it reignites the fire.....and i know i have been warned. As i go over to put on my undies, i stop and ask.....Master chuckles as He says He was ready with cane in hand to remind me to ask...i may get dressed.
Have a good weekend all...be safe if the weather is crazy....