UGH...I apologize. I have two more March questions to answer. When i left to visit the grands, i figured i would be back with a day or two left to answer them. And...i just forgot, until tonight for some reason. I just went back and read most of the comments for March to be sure i did not forget any others...if i have, please remind me, it was not intentional.
from greengirl...Do you ever think about how you would like things to evolve with your Master over time? If so, what do you imagine?
I used to think about how i wanted or dreamed, that things would proceed and evolve. Now, not so much. To be honest, we are at a place today, i never could have dreamed or imagined. We met with the thought of maybe having some spanking fun together. Yes, that has happened, but neither one of us....more so me...ever imagined what we have today.
We have talked about how lucky we are, how compatible, how our relationship has grown in ways neither one of us expected. We are in a very good place. As for the future...who knows. I do expect us to grow old...make that older ...together. There is more than the M/s aspect to our relationship, but the M/s is an important component.
One thing i have learned this year, enjoy the journey...relish the gift of the here and now....as my mom would say....man (or woman) plans....and God laughs).
from Del Fonte...Do you think maintenance will ever cease, or will always be part of your dynamic?
Master and i have discussed this one, and we agree...maintenance is here to stay. If i had to list the 3 most important decisions that have brought us this far....one of those 3 would be weekly maintenance.
We started maintenance at a time when i was struggling with my submission. ( i think about 3/4 years ago.) Spankings were irregular, once a month, sometimes more, sometimes less. I was not sure if i was submission 'material'. I read, on a now defunct blog, about someone who feeling the same way. In fact she wrote so eloquently, i asked her if i could share parts of her blog with Master. She said yes, i did......and the next day we met for my first maintenance spanking. Master said they would be weekly, and i thought....we will see how long that lasts. It has lasted, unless one of us is out of town for the whole week, we do not miss maintenance...at times i have suggested we could miss a week because of crazy schedules, but He always makes it happen.
And, for me (Us), it has been a very good decision. I knew i would be spanked at least once a week ( most weeks, it is more than that), it showed me in a concrete way Master's commitment to us, it helped me to keep a good 'head space', and made punishment spankings a rare event. When i imagined maintenance, i pictured a nice, fun spanking, where we re-connect. Master's idea, is a good, hard spanking that makes me think, i don't want a harder one. I still think i would like my version, but.....
....As i am sitting here, i am watching the first (of 19) Red Sox/Yankees game of the season. Master and i have a wager.....right now the Yanks are ahead....4--1....GO SOX!!!
PS....i have no idea why the second question has a lighter background, but i can't seem to make it go away.....DUH...