Thanks to all of you who helped Master with His question....i have a feeling we will be doing research on this question soon! I am looking out of my window at 20 inches of snow...in March??? Everything....schools, roads, and malls were all shut down yesterday. Will someone please remind Mother Nature that the calendar says that spring starts next week?
slave ali asks...What first attracted you to Master and He to you?
Master answered....just the fact that i would meet Him, we had exchanged emails and talked on chat, and on the phone, He was looking forward to meeting me.
My answer....His voice, it still has a quite an effect on me.
What did we like most about each other after when we first met?
Master.....Not long after we met, abby mentioned she wanted to lose weight before her daughter's wedding...1 year away. She chose a goal of 50 pounds, and i agreed to help her ( i had no idea what i was getting into:) I was impressed that she would set such a goal and very pleased when she made it....just in time!
My answer....His sense of humor. Mine can be a little 'quirky', i remember laughing a lot, even tho He kept using the word spanking in a public place.
Katie asks...If you were on a deserted island with Master, what four things would you each bring?
Master....I would bring tanning lotion. I would tell abby to be sure one of her choices was her hair brush.
My answer...Well, i guess my hair brush, a small leather paddle (there would be lots of wood to be found), a tape recorder, so i could remember each day, and....maybe a case of iced tea...have to have my ice tea!
appy asks...It is always you being spanked. Do you sometimes think Master deserves to be spanked?
Well, when He is spanking me with a paddle and i am moving and ouching, and He tells me to settle down, and concentrate on letting the pain move to where it will get me wet, i so want to say to Him....want to change places and see how easy that is not?? No, i have never said it, just in my head...He is holding a paddle.
Way back, when we were just beginning, we were taking a walk in one of the local parks. Master likes to find the more unused paths, and He was leading the way, moving branches deciding on left or right. I picked up a loose branch and swished Masters bottom with it...not hard, and He did have jeans on. Let's just say that is the last time i thought of spanking Master!
Ami asks...What implement do i like best and why?
Anything made of leather is always my first choice....and the top choice among the leather toys....His large leather flogger. A flogging is about as good as a massage, all the tension is moved out, and the swishing of the leather strands up and down my body...heavenly.
What should we do while Dan is recovering, take a break or be more gentle and careful? What positions would you recommend since OTK will not be possible?
A bit of a tough question, for me taking a break would not be a good option. If you can still connect in this way, i would think it would be good for both of you...a piece of normalcy when things seem very much out of your control. I recently had 2 surgeries, the second was....one of those, if it can go wrong it will. Recovery was long, but Master made sure to give me simple tasks that i could do for Him, there was no spanking for a long time..about 2 months, but we were still connected.
Positions....maybe if you lay across the bed, legs of the floor and he can sit next to you, or if he can lay on his side and you are laying next to him. It does not have to be a hard spanking...instead of his hand a light paddle or hair brush or feathers??LOL!
There will be many opportunities to help..serve..him. Drinks, food, meds, making him comfortable, ask what he wants to drink or eat, let him feel he is still leading. I think once he is home and recovering, you will find your way...
I would like to ask anyone else who is reading here...if you have ideas for Ami, please let her know, either here..i will send them...or on her blog. Maybe you have been in this situation...or just have something to add....we both thank you.
Amy, hoped my answers helped...if you have more....be brave, it is easier the second time.