Saturday, February 8, 2014

Stubborn... who me????

         Meeting Master has brought a lot of firsts into my life.  The one that was among the biggest surprises was....that He could 'out-stubborn' me.  Being stubborn has its advantages, as a mommy, as a junior high teacher, as the oldest sibling........but not so much as a submissive.  We have discussed the fact that, until He came into my life, i was the most stubborn person I knew.
         Notice i wrote knew....not know.  I learned....the hard way....that Master could and would out-stubborn me.  He says what He means, and means what he says.  He is always fair, and wants what is best for me...i have not doubt about that, but He also wants what He wants.  For a while now, things have been going pretty smoothly...some reminders of His expectations, but no major punishments, no real struggle with rules.  Until recently....
       The thing is, this is a stupid thing to get stubborn about.  Master and i have talked a lot about exercising lately...me toning up, getting more limber, more stamina, just in general feeling better. Before Master and i started discussing it, i was thinking i needed to get started with the exercise again.  My last surgery really did me in....2 months of doing very little except being tired and trying to recover.  I want and need to get back into making progress with my well being...except i just can't seem to do it.
           Master wants me to get hot and sweaty 5 times a week....yes not 5 times a month Fiona!  LOL.  I don't do hot and sweaty well, but i know it is what is needed.  So this week i did exercise a couple of times...and got .....warm.  When Master asked this afternoon how the exercise was going....i tried to avoid replying.  He was getting me hot and sweaty....but for a much better reason than exercising....
           He told me, i would not get a permission til i answered.  A couple minutes later, i quietly answered.....slowly.  We had been playing, so there were a few paddles nearby...He picked up the heaviest one...a shamrock shaped one, and proceeded to add 50 hard spanks to an already tender bottom.  He asked if He had made His point...I replied I hope so.  He asked me what happens if He has to 'remind' me a second time.....i know what happens He ups the 'ante'.....it will be 100.  
            He tells me He will go to whatever lengths necessary to motivate me, and reminds me....that i am no longer the 'stubbornest' person that i know.  I should be totally convinced and ready to do whatever it takes....i really should be........

hugs abby

26 comments:

  1. I realize your dilemma - mine is that I feel exactly the same about exercise, both the need to do it and the not wanting to. But I have no ultra stubborn man to make me. Best of luck.

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    1. Having an ultra stubborn man....Master would say thank you for the compliment PK...is mostly a blessing. hugs abby

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  2. I totally get the stubborn thing, Abby!! :). Rob has accused me of such a thing in the past. It does have it's benefits when used properly, in the fact that it offers a drive in those positive things that we might undertake, that helps us to persevere. It is hard to curtail in a submissive relationship- which leads to some not so good action on our behinds at times!! YOUCH!!

    Your Master sounds so caring and sweet (in an HOH kinda way- lol) and determined to help you meet your exercise goals. I'm a runner, and I've been slacking off since January. Sometimes I think it helps us get going if we set realistic goals that we can fulfill. "I should just get on the treadmill and run a mile three times a week- or even walk for a while and read." Versus, "I need to get back there and run 5k three times a week." Because we think we can't do all, maybe we do nothing or not much. In actuality doing something is great. Does that help? I think I just helped myself! Lol! I'll stop rambling. :). Many hugs!

    <3 Katie

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    1. Ramble on any time.....and it does help. I just have to get started, get a routine going and increase the time and intensity as i go along. I will start, if you will!
      hugs abby

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  3. Hi Abby, when I read about all of you exercising I feel a bit guilty. I am not allowed to do any extra stuff to my dance job. Doctor's orders, how great is that? I know it is for physical reasons but I always feel so sorry for everyone who is spanked into it. I am more likely to be spanked if I do too much. Funny world isn't it? Keep trying sweetie, just do your best, I really think the key is to find something you enjoy doing rather than something you have to do. There must be something somewhere you quite fancy a go at. Good luck
    love Jan.xx

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    1. Something I enjoy....you are right that would make it easier. I know once i get started, it will become part of my routine. Thanks for your comment.
      hugs abby

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  4. Hot and sweaty from exercise five days a week. I can think of a way that would be pleasant for both, can't you?

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    1. I can, have, and did. He says those are 'bonus' calories......hugs abby

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  5. Isn't it horrible. We know we want to do xyz, but once it's mandated we become stubborn. Maybe you should find articles about different sex positions that are just as beneficial as exercise. :)

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    1. Master loved your suggestion....then added they would be a great reward for exercising.
      hugs abby

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  6. Hey Abby...so sorry you got the reminder!

    According to my therapist, when you have been out of the exercise routine for a while, you should start out very slow...more of a warm up rather than sweaty. Get in the habit of consistency and then build up from there.

    Oh and BTW...did you know that 1 hour of hot and sweaty sex will burn at least 119 calories?

    Good luck with your exercises!

    Blessings...
    Cat

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    1. Thanks for the calorie count....Master says those would be great bonus calories. My problem is just getting started, once i get in the routine, i will slowly add to the time and intensity.
      hugs abby

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  7. I get the stubborn thing too Abby. As HS said it's funny how it may be something we want to do, but as soon as it becomes something we HAVE to do ...

    Hot and sweaty 5 days a week! I'm sure you can find a number of inventive ways to achieve it :) Good luck!

    Hugs,
    Roz

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    1. LOL....oh yes i could.....but Master doesn't think any of it falls under the title of exercise....and guess who's definition counts?? I am voting for all of you...but...
      hugs abby

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  8. Oh I definitely get the stubborn thing!
    Man if I make a decision about exercising I will do it...but then sometimes I don't make the decision for that reason!
    Well I'd say your motivation is in place this week...don't you? 100 hard ones would make me run!!
    Master just wants you healthy and at your best!

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    1. Yes, i do know and truly believe He always wants just what is best for me.....and He will win this little battle of wills....sometimes i just want to see if i can wear Him down....
      hugs abby

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  9. good luck with the exercise...sounds like you have good motivation though :-)
    hugs

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    1. Thanks, i know you always wins these little battles.....and the medium ones....and the larger ones......hugs abby

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  10. Hahahahahah….you know you SHOULD…but that's not the question. The question is WILL you? Um….well with years of being one of the most stubborn people I know, I would sadly stubborn myself into trouble more than once…I hope you DO NOT follow my lead! Listen to the most stubborn person you know - Your Master! Get hot and sweaty! Remember, basements are bad…so it taunting a sadist with reasons to go all sadistic on your ass!

    hugs,
    fiona

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  11. LOL;....You give good advice, my friend......but when that stubborn streak raises its head.....
    hugs abby

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  12. Ugh..that stubborn thing. I am supposed to work out four days a week, or at least go outside for a walk. I don't have to get into serious cardio but I enjoy exercise so I do a lot of the time. Well, I enjoy it once I get going lol.

    I hate getting spanked for not complying when it's something I really want to do on my own anyway!

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  13. I agree, and once i can get myself back to the routine, it will be much easier...til then...
    hugs abby

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  14. Well, I have to lose ten pounds in three months and Ty has a calendar for weekly check-ins where the my weight should be (going down by a half pound each week). He wants me to work out twice a week, which I haven't done and he hasn't really enforced. The weigh in has been enforced and I have been spanked twice for that. Believe me that is very painful.
    I dislike exercising soooo much. But the weight is not coming off by diet alone. I guess we are not alone in this all diet/weight/exercise thing.

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  15. It is good to hear we are not alone....misery loves company...LOL. Actually Master has helped me lost about 60 pounds....over a long time. He is more interested in my toning...which i need...and i could also lose more, and not be considered 'skinny'. Good luck!!
    hugs abby

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  16. Getting back into exercising is sooooo hard! I would get to it, if it will be 100 next time lol.

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